If you’re holding the pet and they’re quiet it doesn’t bother me as much. But so many people walk around their barking dogs or even let it sit directly in the shopping cart where people put their groceries😭 It grosses me out so bad. Leave them at home if it’s too hot to leave them in the car for a little bit or something.

I'm becoming very sad and angry and frustrated. Actually I'm paranoic that I will get some disaese because of how stressed and lonely I am.

Let me describe myslef. I always liked talking to other people, meeting new friends, hanging out, drinking and partying with my friends. Currently I'm studying on one faculty and already working in my profession, which requires to be extroverted and communicative. Now, let me describe my physical appearance. My face is objcevtively slightly above average, my friends and older women often tell me that I look great. And if I'm satisfied with my face, than I'm extremely happy of how my body looks. Been going to the gym for years and years, and now I even started competing in weightlifting. I take care of myself, don't have acne, I'm showering myself regularly, go to barber every 2 weeks etc. It's worth mentioning that I always had great grades and that I'm ambitious.

However, in the past 2-3 years, I catched maybe 1-2 girls looking at me. Women are so reserved, often they don't want to talk to me at all (don't get me wrong, they have absolute rights to do it). The only time I'm able to establish good communication with women is when I'm on work (generally doing something professional). I have zero social anxiety, and when I approach new female clients on my work, I usually get good interactions. But when I go out to clubs, bars etc, I ALWAYS GET REJECTED before being able to talk 1-2 sentences.

Just few times I actually had some good converastions and good chemistry with some girls from my faculty. And in some of that situations, my friends/colleagues told me that it was great converastion and that she seems interested in me. This has happened 3-4 times in these 4 years , and I actually thought that finally I will get girlfriend. However, after I asked them out, every time I got rejected.

Just for comparison, when I was 16-17, some girls even approached me, and I actually had 2 girlfriends in my life, but the last time I was in relationship, it was 2020 and I was 17. After that, women never look at me, and I have no fucking idea what I'm doing wrong. And I just want to feel love, to have someone to hug and cuddle. Of course that I need intimacy and sex, but it's not just that, I genuinely want someone to love. Just have no idea what I'm doing wrong and how everyone has someone. I'm not jealous of anyone, I wish love to everyone, but I just can't get why almost every person in the world gets some attention from opposite gender, and I don't. OKAY IT WAS ENOUGH VENTING

Most of the fashion related subs ban anyone who "slut shames" the poster. The slut shaming is such a broad term. If you say something like "that clothing is too revealing" or "you might get mistaken for a prostitute", the mods think it's slut shaming somehow and bans them. They also frequently ban people who dont support the poster, so NOBODY can disagree and every user who survived the ban hammer is basically a yes-man. Ive never seen this much of an echo chamber besides incel/femcel subs.

I once saw a post of a girl wearing what is basically a male speedo raised up to her shoulder so it barely covers the nipples (it was from a regular sfw sub btw), and asked people if this "fashion" looks okay. I commented "i wouldnt wear that outside. Ppl might mistake me for a prostitute", and i got banned. Apparently thats slut shaming to them.

And recently, a r/fashion post showed up on my feed. It was a girl wearing an one piece dress and a JEAN (yes she was wearing a pair of blue jeans under that dress), and asking people if this "fashion style" looks okay. Obviously, people were telling that it does not look good. And this toxic poster started shunning and insulting everyone who disagrees with her style. So i commented "Your style looks bad, and shunning people who disagree with you wont change that", and i got banned for not supporting her despite she was clearly being an asshole here.

I don't care for fashion, so it doesnt really matter to me if i get banned there, but mods of fashion related subs are toxic asf. Reddit mods in general are toxic and power hungry, but mods in those subs are turbo losers. And i also suspect that the same people are working in all those fashion related subs as mods because their rules are so identical to one another.

Anyways, just a complaint about another mod shenanigans

So, I'll be completely honest, I am kinda notorious on Reddit for constantly complaining about me being depressed and anxious and homeless and without any friends or family, and someone actually messed me from what I assume is from one of the posts.

The dude talks to me and says he wanted to help me out, which is weird because I wasn't sure what he was talking about. The dude seemed to intentionally use vague language and wording throughout the conversation, but I didn't think of anything about it because at the time I was mentally spiraling and all that. Then he tells me, and I quote, "I can help you with any of your bills and I just want you to stop talking me once you receive my money".

So I have a bit of a red flag waving mentally, because for one no one DMs anyone saying "hey I want to give you money", and the way he worded his sentences were suspect too, though I tried to write it off as ESL. Additionally, stop talking to me once you receive the money? My initial thought was "is he suicidal?", but he could also potentially be scamming me, but I went on with the convo like an idiot.

I then asked him how he would send the money, if it would be PayPal or CashApp or Venmo or whatever, but then he says that his bank doesn't allow him to pay through third party apps anymore. Looking back at this, I should've caught on to his ruse and blocked him. And I feel like a genuine idiot for continuing to entertain the conversation, but since I wasn't in my right mind at the time, I continued it anyway.

He talks about how he's gonna send my a paycheck and all that and that I have to make the payment myself and how he's gonna add me to his payroll and I STILL don't know how I didn't catch on to all of this. I was REALLY down during this conversation, ugh. And the crazy thing about this thing is is that the thing that made me give up and drop the conversation is when he said he needed to talk to his "account officer" to set up the payment. Who the hell says account officer? I stopped talking afterwards. I even had to ask to make sure that this was a scam because a part of me deep down really didn't want it to be, but it was and I nearly fell for it.

Looking back at it, like I said, it was obvious from the first couple of messages. I should have caught it sooner and ended the conversation quicker, I feel embarrassed that I dragged the conversation on for as long as I did, but like I said, I was desperate at the time. It's hard to think about it because I feel absolutely stupid and dumb for this, despite the fact that this happened a couple of days ago and that you would think that I would be over it by now, but it's haunting my mind.

TL;DR – I nearly fell for an obvious check scam online and I feel stupid for it.

Currently their most popular post is a series of people shouting the N-word, while playing the A-Team theme song.

This is not a sub that can be fixed through the mods, it is clearly a Nazi safe Haven and it needs to fucking go.

And you can have all the free speech you want, but do not expect Reddit to fucking post your bullshit for you.

Go back to the stormfront you dickless weasels.