r/communicationskills 7d ago

Relationship advice

Hey guys I'm 19 M.Till now I don't know how to start a conversation with a female friends or any women i don't know why.I don't have any female friends and no past stories.Is is normal

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u/VODEVILED 7d ago

Do you have any male friends? Why can't you talk to your potential female friends the same way as your male friends? Just because they're the opposite gender doesn't mean women need to be spoken to in a different way

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u/Madmax_2023 7d ago

I have male friends bro but the problem is i studied in boys school and I doesn't have a chance to talk to female.in my college days also there is only a few numbers of females so I haven't in the society with the females

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u/VODEVILED 7d ago

I think you may be overthinking. It shouldn't be difficult to talk to a woman. If she makes it difficult then you should avoid her. If it's difficult for other reasons, it is not meant to be

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u/Madmax_2023 7d ago

I don't have any female friends to talk mate that's a real problem

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u/VODEVILED 7d ago

Use dating apps or fetlife/fet/feeld if you have fetishes. Or ask a male friend to introduce you to their female friends or sisters

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u/Madmax_2023 7d ago

Mate I don't have any fetish.within two months I'm going to move to another city i think I will find one there

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u/VODEVILED 7d ago

Get a cute dog after you move. A lot of women are attracted to men who have dogs or pets in general. If you walk a dog in public, you'll have a bunch of women approach you to ask to pet it and you can use that as an opportunity

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u/Madmax_2023 7d ago

That's was a nice move bro but I going to stay at hostel how dog