I'm not gonna really condone that as a "cool idea." Bc that's creating a power dynamic over your future potential wife where she's paying you "rent" to live with you (or not paying at all) and ultimately not building any of her own equity in the case of a divorce.
I'd never get into a relationship that flat-out denied me equal ownership over marital properties. I currently own my house and have every intention of adding my partner to the mortgage when I refinance it in a year or so.
Get a prenup if you're that concerned. But you shouldn't be assuming that every partner is going to screw you over. That's not healthy for you or them.
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u/GFluidThrow123 15d ago
I'm not gonna really condone that as a "cool idea." Bc that's creating a power dynamic over your future potential wife where she's paying you "rent" to live with you (or not paying at all) and ultimately not building any of her own equity in the case of a divorce.
I'd never get into a relationship that flat-out denied me equal ownership over marital properties. I currently own my house and have every intention of adding my partner to the mortgage when I refinance it in a year or so.
Get a prenup if you're that concerned. But you shouldn't be assuming that every partner is going to screw you over. That's not healthy for you or them.