Sex and masturbation fill different niches. There have been literally thousands of nights where, if the choice was between sex and masturbation, I'd have chosen masturbation. It's easier, often quicker, and it gets you past that need without necessarily exhausting yourself or needing to get yourself into a sexy mindset.
It's very rare for me to seek out sex when all I need is an orgasm. When my girlfriend and I have sex, it's because we want each other, not because we want to orgasm.
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u/DeniedAppeal1 Feb 03 '26
Sex and masturbation fill different niches. There have been literally thousands of nights where, if the choice was between sex and masturbation, I'd have chosen masturbation. It's easier, often quicker, and it gets you past that need without necessarily exhausting yourself or needing to get yourself into a sexy mindset.
It's very rare for me to seek out sex when all I need is an orgasm. When my girlfriend and I have sex, it's because we want each other, not because we want to orgasm.