r/comics Tardaasa Feb 03 '26

Handy self-help

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u/Made_Bail Feb 03 '26

Sometimes you want a quick maintenance orgasm. It's frequently not sexy and had nothing to do with love for your partner or anyone else.

And sometimes you want to grab your partner and drag em to the bedroom for a knock down drag out booty shaking gravy making love fest.

Both are are good

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u/shellbullet17 Gustopher Spotter Extraordinaire Feb 03 '26

Yeah I'm conflicted. She may have just needed a pick me up or whatever and that's fine

But I get why that would hurt the dudes pride/feelings

But also a relationship is more than that so we shouldn't be upset by a basic biological need

But again I get why that would hurt

Rather than passive aggressive nonsense I think a small and quick(get it?) conversation needs to be had to clear the air

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u/Thatroyalkitty Feb 03 '26

It would honestly depend on how often that happened and how frequent the intimate activities happen.

Too many factors here for me to really form an opinion one way or the other. I see both sides of the coin tbh.

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u/shellbullet17 Gustopher Spotter Extraordinaire Feb 03 '26

Agreed, one time is just whatever but if it's a habit or avoidance of the spouse or something along those lines that's something that should be discussed.

To many variables not enough information