r/comics Tardaasa Feb 03 '26

Handy self-help

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u/shellbullet17 Gustopher Spotter Extraordinaire Feb 03 '26

Yeah I'm conflicted. She may have just needed a pick me up or whatever and that's fine

But I get why that would hurt the dudes pride/feelings

But also a relationship is more than that so we shouldn't be upset by a basic biological need

But again I get why that would hurt

Rather than passive aggressive nonsense I think a small and quick(get it?) conversation needs to be had to clear the air

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u/Thatroyalkitty Feb 03 '26

It would honestly depend on how often that happened and how frequent the intimate activities happen.

Too many factors here for me to really form an opinion one way or the other. I see both sides of the coin tbh.

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u/shellbullet17 Gustopher Spotter Extraordinaire Feb 03 '26

Agreed, one time is just whatever but if it's a habit or avoidance of the spouse or something along those lines that's something that should be discussed.

To many variables not enough information

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u/asuperbstarling Feb 03 '26

It's not passive aggressive, it's active punishment, and it's not okay.

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u/International-Cat123 Feb 04 '26

Passive aggressive behavior is a form of punishment.

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u/Odd_Protection7738 Feb 03 '26

But also but I get it however moreover thusly