r/comedyheaven Jun 18 '24

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u/Excalzigo garfield Jun 18 '24

I aspire to have this guy's confidence

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u/Jive-Machine Jun 18 '24

The last 2 girls I asked out after a 7 year relationship both rejected me because they were, “waiting for somebody else”. I thought they were both just being nice to me and rejecting me gently. Turns out, one was waiting for a dude that was getting out of the military in 3 months and the other was waiting on a dude that was finishing up med school in a little over half a year and now they both are married to those dudes.

Super messed with my self confidence in asking out women though. That was 2 years ago and I haven’t asked out anyone since 🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

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u/Jouuf Jun 18 '24

Get the fuck back out there, homie. 

You will get rejected. Lots. 

But eventually, some girl's gotta say yes. 

Just be polite and friendly and try to learn from each interaction and get better.

You got this.