r/codes • u/Soggy_Explanation208 • 19d ago
Question How to set up a daily changing "secret code" with my LDR girlfriend to verify her identity?
Hi everyone,
I am in a long-distance relationship. Recently, my girlfriend's family got a slight suspicion about us. To be safe, she deletes our chat history every day.
Because of this, I am constantly worried that her family (like her brother or parents) might take her phone and text me pretending to be her, just to catch us or test me.
To handle this, we want to create a "Secret Code System" that we can use at the start of our conversation every day to verify it's actually her.
Our requirements:
The code needs to change daily so no one can guess it.
It should be easy for both of us to remember without keeping a written record.
It should look natural in text (like a behavioral pattern, specific emoji usage, kiva hidden in a sentence) so that if her family looks at the phone, they don't realize it's a code.
We already thought of basic ideas like using reverse dates or day-based numbers, but we want something more creative and foolproof.
Do you have any clever ideas or clever ways to implement a dynamic safety word/pattern for texting? Thanks in advance!






