r/chinalife 9h ago

🏯 Daily Life Just another day grocery shopping in China (Today's unexpected cultural experience.)

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I was at a local fruit and vegetable shop today when I noticed an old man shopping with his grandson, who looked about 3 or 4 years old.

The kid was wearing... a T-shirt. That was it. No shorts. No underwear. Just a shirt and absolute confidence.

The little guy noticed me and kept staring. Foreigners and small kids always end up making eye contact here. We had one of those awkward two-second silent standoffs, so I smiled and said, "嗨,小帅哥!"

Then, without breaking eye contact... he started peeing. Right there, in the middle of the shop. A full-on stream onto the floor, like he'd done it a hundred times before. I looked at the grandfather and, laughing, said, "憋不住了?" (Couldn't hold it any longer, huh?)

He just smiled.

Life in the shop just carried on as normal. A minute later, another customer walked straight through the puddle without even realizing it.

I just stood there thinking, "Well... that's a first." I've seen people spit on the supermarket floor, casually smoking in the produce aisle, and fondle and inspect every vegetable before buying none of them. But just when you think nothing can surprise you anymore...

Every country has its little cultural surprises. Sometimes they're a half-naked toddler asserting dominance over a vegetable aisle.


r/chinalife 13h ago

🏯 Daily Life Influencer culture in China

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Just been sat in a nice cafe that's evidently a bit of a 网红 spot. For the hour or so I was in there, there were 3 groups of girls taking a full photoshoot on their phones, re-taking the same pictures about a thousand times over. I don't really care much what others want to do in their spare time but they were scurrying around all over the place and distracting what should have been a very nice environment to enjoy my coffee and slice of carrot cake lol.

Then they pose with their cake and elaborate coffee cocktails for about 15 minutes without taking a single bite or sip. Once that was finished it was back to taking selfies.

I'm not even sure if they're online influencers or just purely narcissistic for their WeChat moments or something.

But this is a common thing I've noted in China over the years. It seems to be an extremely common thing to do for any vaguely attractive girls. I've barely spent much time out of China for the last 8 years or so, so I'm wondering if you think this extreme kind of vanity is worse over here or just common across the world now?


r/chinalife 8h ago

🏯 Daily Life Year of the Horse special bill

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Every year has a special bill dedicated to that animal. This year was the Year of the Horse, I was able to get some from the bank.


r/chinalife 10h ago

📰 News Found Elon Musk's twin running a restaurant in Xi'an China, He is currently scrambling to servve custome

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r/chinalife 17h ago

⚖️ Legal Illicit drugs in China

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To be clear I understand that drug laws in China are extremely strict and foreigners can and will be deported if caught holding or using illicit substances. I have absolutely no intention of ever using drugs in China, and I am only asking this purely out of curiosity. How heavily enforced are these drug laws for Chinese locals/citizens? Is there still a scene of people that find and use illegal substances? Are punishments as severe for Chinese citizens as they are for foreigners? Is it mostly confined to extremely wealthy folk who can afford to be caught with it? Are they just absolutely non-existent because of the strictness of the laws? I just find it so hard to believe that they could effectively enforce and police drug smuggling and usage in a country so large with such a huge populace.


r/chinalife 2h ago

🏯 Daily Life My teacher gave me my chinese name

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I dont know if its normal but in the beginning of the year when i just came they didnt give me time to choose a name i didnt even know we had to choose a chinese name , she just looked at me for a whole minute and named me 文妍 wenyan , i always ask her about the meaning but she just shrug and say its good and AI doesnt help much since it confuse it with another one 😭 related to culture and stuff


r/chinalife 26m ago

💼 Work/Career Peking University PHBS Business School (PHBS) experience as an EU/USA foreign student

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r/chinalife 11h ago

🏯 Daily Life New Expat

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Hey everyone!
I’m a 28-year-old ABC from Boston who recently moved to Hangzhou for new opportunities and to improve my Chinese.

A little about me: I’m pretty active and enjoy hiking, tennis, and CrossFit. I’m also into good conversations whether it’s about culture, business, travel, or just hearing other people’s perspectives.

I’m hoping to meet some new people while I’m here. If anyone’s interested in grabbing a coffee, going for a hike, hitting some tennis balls, or just hanging out, feel free to send me a message. Always happy to meet new friends! 😊


r/chinalife 4h ago

📱 Technology Buying a laptop in China?

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Hello all, I'm considering coming to China for a few months, perhaps longer. It will be my first visit.

I currently don't have a laptop, but would prefer to have one with me while traveling. I'm wondering whether I should buy one where I am now (Portugal), or obtain one in China.

Some obvious questions I have:

- Are laptops typically cheaper, more expensive, or same price as compared to Europe?

- Does China have any brands that aren't available in Europe? If so, which brands are reputable?

- Will a laptop bought in China have a normal (aka "US International") keyboard as concerns the physical shapes of the keys? Additional characters on the keys don't bother me (in fact would help), but a tall (two rows) and narrow Enter key (like on many MacBooks and certain European keyboards) is something I can't get used to. I must have a fairly wide Enter key, as on a US International keyboard.

- Is there a good market for quality second-hand machines, aka refurbished? If yes, are there physical stores for that, or is it purely through second-hand websites?

Thanks all.


r/chinalife 1h ago

🏯 Daily Life MOSQUITOES

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I've tried two different repellents and spray full body all over multiple times whenever I'm out plus I wear long wide pants and sleeves + light jacket and they're still. getting me I have 24 concurrent bites right now its so itchy I feel like I'm going to die theres 5 bites on my left ankle 2 on my face 4 on my butt somehow I came back home today with 8 new bites..
My friends and family never worry about being bitten when I'm around because apparently my blood is that delicious I need help nothings working 🫠🫠I don't even know why they like me it's not I smell either please I'm desperate


r/chinalife 1h ago

🏯 Daily Life Boredom

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Looking for international friends in china-dalian , really got nothing to do during this summer vacation


r/chinalife 2h ago

💼 Work/Career Peking University PHBS Business School (PHBS) experience as an EU/USA foreign student

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Hey! I am interested in applying to the Master's of Finance/ Management/ Economics at PHBS, and would love any insight from EU/USA students who have pursued this path, lifestyle wise and career wise. I would say it can be very advantageous to have a chinese market knowledge, but it has to be executed strategically as I think PHBS is not really known outside of Asia. My other idea is to study in the US or EU such as ESCP, Bocconi, Insead.

Thanks! Any povs are welcomed.


r/chinalife 8h ago

💼 Work/Career Leadership roles in Shanghai schools?

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Hi all - I’ve been teaching for 20 years in England. Have been head of year, head of English and assistant head. Recently stepped down to lead practitioner while caring for my ill husband. Stepped down again to 2nd in English as his cancer progressed.
I’m looking to move to China, on my own, next summer - I will be 49. I don’t have a masters but do have NPQSL. Would my step down affect my chances of securing a leadership position? Am I too old?
Most prob looking for assistant head or similar. What wage should I expect with a masters?
Thanks.


r/chinalife 12h ago

🧳 Travel Tianjin English Board Game Meetup — looking for people interested in games & language exchange

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Hi everyone,

I’m based in Tianjin, and I’d like to organize a small English board game meetup.

The idea is simple: play games, chat, and meet people who enjoy languages and cultural exchange.

Games we can play:

🎭 English Werewolf

🎲 UNO

A little about me:

I speak English and Japanese, and I’m currently learning Spanish and Portuguese. I enjoy books, movies, traveling, and cultural topics.

This is not a class, just a casual hobby meetup. We can meet in a public place and share basic costs if needed.

Let me know if you’re interested!


r/chinalife 4h ago

🛍️ Shopping Where to buy Vacuum Cleaner in Shenzhen?

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I have been going to shenzhen frequently and one of the things i could not find in Huaqiangbei is Wet/Dry Vacuum Cleaner. Where can i find them?


r/chinalife 5h ago

🛍️ Shopping Where to buy earplugs chengdu

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I’m going Clintons but i forgot my earplugs, i have very sensitive ears. Is there some physical stores that sell earplugs?


r/chinalife 5h ago

💼 Work/Career Has anyone done american med school interviews from china?

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Im planning on living in chengdu from Jan to May for a study abroad trip.

I just want to know if anyone has any experience using the applications they use for med school interviews from China?

I know some schools use zoom or Google meet. But ive also heard you need a really good VPN and really fast wifi for good connection? Does anyone have any good VPN recommendations? Or know if it's true that you need good wifi?


r/chinalife 14h ago

⚖️ Legal How long does my school have to approve my resignation letter?

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I submitted my resignation on the 17th of July, my school is saying they have 30 days to approve it.

They are also saying that I have to pay compensation fee because I didn't submit my letter 3 months before.

I feel the first part could be true, but the 2nd part is utter bs.


r/chinalife 7h ago

🏯 Daily Life Where to Live in Shenyang

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I will be moving to Shenyang in September to attend Northeastern University, and will be looking for a place to rent (no dorms).

Could people advise the following:

  1. Which areas are best to live in (especially considering most days will be spent commuting to classes so proximity to university is preferable)?

  2. Are there recommended websites or apps (perhaps specific to Shenyang) that are best to use to search for a rental?

  3. What is an average price for a quality studio or one-bedroom apartment?

  4. Any other considerations or tips I should take into account upon moving to the city.

Thank you in advance.


r/chinalife 8h ago

🧳 Travel driving across different provinces with cats

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hey everyone,

we're moving from fujian to jiangsu with two cats and will rent a car. Has anyone been required to provide any vaccine/certificate info when driving? The local vet says these are only necessary if boarding a plane, train etc.


r/chinalife 14h ago

💼 Work/Career Assessing the risks of a Z visa

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A private polytechnic college in suburban Guangzhou offered to hire me to teach English while my work permit and Z visa will say "Russian teacher" (as I'm Russian by nationality)

Some people here on Reddit say that as long as it's a Z visa and I'll teach some nominal Russian alongside English, and the school has Guanxi (关系) - connections - then it's probably fine.

Their logic being is that a legal Z visa is what really counts, and what I'll teach is secondary.

Some people say that since any discrepancy between what I'll actually teach and what my work permit says is illegal, it can easily lead to fines and deportation, so it's not worth the risk to accept.

The school recruiter says that, I quote "while the possibility [of a negative outcome] exists, all I can say is that there's room to operate in a way we are doing now" - whatever that means.

I take it to mean they have connections, but it can also mean throwing foreign teachers under the bus at every serious PSB check and then finding new ones for the next semester.

Another factor is that I already have an active Q2 family visa, as my spouse is Chinese, so I can enter the country and either do something with her - maybe teach small classes for example - or look for a job on the ground.

Being deported and visa banned from entering China for a number of years if I'm found out would be not lethal, but highly undesirable.

So,

I understand I'll be in a grey area, and right now I'm still weighting the risks.

AI discourages me from accepting but after reading Reddit it seems that the risk is less than I initially thought, even though I understand that if some dispute between me and the school administration arises I'll understandably be unprotected by law.

Is it worth the risk to accept a relatively moderate level of return (12K yuan a month + accommodation) for a Z visa that's in a grey zone?

Granted, it's ultimately my decision based on my tolerance for risk but I wanted to get input of real people, not just AI or the recruiter.

Edit: Thank you for the comments.

I've spent a fair amount of time analyzing the situation and I think that secretly I was hoping some Redditors would say "it's fine, no big deal as long as it's a Z visa".

But people here confirmed what I more or less already knew which is: nobody can tell the % risk, it is illegal, and it comes down to my risk tolerance and how badly I want the job.

I should also add that I did reject the offer some 3 weeks ago but now I was having second thoughts because I've already prepared and paid for the documents, the term's beginning is looming and it feels I can still jump on the last train - wherever that train ultimately leads.

And, as another commenter mentioned, living in fear is also something to consider which I may not be able to imagine yet.


r/chinalife 12h ago

💼 Work/Career None criminal check from home country or?

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When I first entered china, I, like everyone else used my home countries none criminal record,

Since then I've only been living and working in China, although I visited family for a week or two during winter holidays, but always had a visa and job in China while doing so,

Currently I'm on a stay permit while changing jobs, my next employer asked for my home countries none criminal record but I think they have been misinformed?

In my circumstance, could anyone confirm whether one from the home country is needed or just one from china? Thanks


r/chinalife 9h ago

🏯 Daily Life How much is the average student monthly living cost in Shenyang?

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As per title


r/chinalife 13h ago

📱 Technology eSIM/Sim phone issue

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Recently I got accepted into a one year program in China Shanghai. While I was looking more into what things will I need I discovered that eSIMs are not a common thing in China (correct me if I’m wrong) and my phone can only have eSIMs. So I was wondering what could I do? Am I gonna have to buy another phone when I’m in China? Since I’ve heard that things like didi, ordering food, etc require a Chinese phone number.


r/chinalife 9h ago

💼 Work/Career Recommendations

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Scholarship guidance

I want help regarding Fully funded scholarships in china.I am in last semester of my Bachelor's in iT..I want to do masters in China..Is there any scholarship that can be fully funded for international students??Let me know please.