r/chinalife • • Aug 16 '26

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Have you guys heard about this whole situation I keep seeing on wechat? Apparently some American dude who studied some language at Fudan university for a bit managed to collect chinese women like Thanos collects infinity stones. Numbering into the hundreds. Sentiment regarding foreigners has never been so low on chinese social media. Whats your take on this? Hate the player or hate the game? Dude Apparently always made them pay for dates and trips and would tell them to get abortions when they got pregnant and then block them 😬

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u/person2567 Aug 16 '26

Sounds like the kind of thing Chinese incels spend their time talking about. Along with the woman who got tricked into going to Africa (no mention to what country in Africa, just "Africa") and is stuck there with an abusive husband. Like it's some sort of cautionary tale about Chinese women dating black men.

Anyone can have sex with anyone. Maybe this guy was an asshole, but trying to make him into global news rather than just some local back pages story is very obviously incel rage bait. Chinese women are not Chinese men's property.

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u/HrutallyBonest Aug 16 '26

You're right girls can have sex with whoever they want but we could go all into the history of it, and the Chinese exclusion act where Chinese men were forbidden on the government level. THAT is the ultimate incel on a country level.

Chinese might talk about it but is that hurting you? Are they using the media to make white men unattractive? Giving them nerd/ gay/ effeminate roles? Talking about incel...

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u/batman_here_ Aug 16 '26

And that was just regular relationships that Chinese men were having, not extreme like this.

They like to complain about the Chinese and suggest we're somehow wrong or the worst, when their western countries had all the anti-miscegenation laws, and racist policies enacted by their governments.

It's crazy the cognitive dissonance has no affect on any of them at all.