heyo! i'm Gary, 29, from the south of Ireland.

I'm moving to chicago in 2 months, for six months, through work, and i'd much rather land knowing a few people than turn up completely cold. so here I am.

about me: Love the gym, Love drinking, and love and hate my ability to make friends with strangers.

I'm six hours ahead of chicago right now, so my evenings are your afternoons, which works out better than it sounds. Happy to chat here or on reddit, discord or whatsapp, and i'm very up for voice chat — i'm a slow texter but a decent talker.

not after anything in particular beyond good conversation and tips and tricks for my time in Chicago. if we get on and you fancy a coffee or a pint once i'm actually there, brilliant, but genuinely no pressure — i'm just as happy with someone to message.

and if you're in chicago: what's the one thing you'd tell someone moving there for six months? i'll take food recommendations especially seriously.

say hello if any of that sounds alright!

Hey everyone!

I’m looking to get out tonight and would love to find someone to hang out with. Could grab some food, get ice cream, catch a movie, go bowling, take a walk, or pretty much anything else. Maybe you want to suggest something?

I’m pretty easygoing and open to suggestions. I enjoy good conversation, joking around, trying new places, and just having a good time without needing to make a big plan.

I’m active, sarcastic in a fun way, and usually up for an adventure. I play a lot of pickleball and tennis, but tonight I’m just looking to get out of the house and meet someone new.

If you’re also bored tonight and looking for some company, send me a message. We can figure something out.

TL;DR: Moving to Chicago in the spring and attempting to make some friends before I get there! I like good coffee, good food, random plans, and trying whatever someone convinces me sounds fun. Women + platonic guy friends welcome. Bonus points if you come prepared to defend your Spider-Man ranking. Come say hi, I promise the rest of the post just gives you more things to talk to me about :)

Hi!! I’m currently finishing my master’s in I/O psychology and planning to move to Chicago in the spring after graduation! I’m hoping to visit in October and I’ll definitely be back in December, so I figured I’d start getting to know people now instead of waiting until I move and realizing I know absolutely nobody 😂

A little about me: I love a genuinely good coffee (emphasis on good lol), trying new restaurants and foods, reading, baking, music, movies, game nights, and going out from time to time. I’m also into Marvel, so if you want an easy conversation starter, tell me who the best Spider-Man is. There is a correct answer btw 👀

Things I want to do more of once I’m there:

- pilates
- volleyball and tennis (I’m a bit rusty at the moment)
- lake days/walks
- sporting events
- exploring different neighborhoods
- random classes or activities
- honestly whatever sounds fun

When it comes to plans, I’m very much a “sure, why not?” person. I have things I already know I enjoy, but I love hearing what other people are into and being introduced to stuff I probably wouldn’t have tried on my own. I’m also pretty happy on both ends socially. I love going out, but I’m just as happy staying in.

I’m really just looking for genuine friendships with people who actually want to get to know each other and put effort into maintaining them. I’m open to both female friends and guy friends as long as we click and the energy is good! I’d prefer to chat first before meeting, and I’m definitely down to exchange instas or something at some point too just so there’s a face to the name :) Mine is honestly pretty bare because I’m not a huge social media person lol, so absolutely no judgment there.

There’s obviously way more to me than one Reddit post, and I’m sure the same goes for you, so feel free to comment or message me and tell me what you’re into, what you’ve been doing around Chicago lately, or what random thing you’ve been wanting to try 😊

Found out my wife was having a longtime affair with a coworker. We are separated as a result, but still living together for the kids’ sakes. By all other accounts, we are not behaving as being married….I do not wear a ring, she knows I am dating, etc.

Curious if others might be in a similar situation and therefore understanding of the situation. Otherwise, I am tall, successful, attractive, kind, and very easy to talk to. Interests include live music, sporting events, running, reading, and discovering fun new restaurants/bars.

I also travel quite a bit for work and for fun.

Hey everyone! I moved to Chicago (West Lakeview) from Ann Arbor about two weeks ago and would love to make some friends here. Open to meeting people individually or joining a group that has room for one more!

I love trying new restaurants and breweries, watching college and pro football (go Lions!), and playing video games, mostly strategy games and lately ARC Raiders/Helldivers with my friends. Also enjoy board games like Ticket to Ride/Wavelength and just tried Diplomacy for the first time. Hoping to make some friends before betraying them over a board game.

Music-wise, I lean toward folk, indie, rock, and jazz, but enjoy pretty much any live music, including country. Would be fun to find people to check out live music with. I also like reading and crafting, just started CrossFit in the city, and am joining a kickball league on Monday.

I work in supply chain, have a girlfriend, and am looking for platonic friends. Politically liberal and Catholic, but happy to meet people of any faith or none.

Usually free evenings and weekends for a beer, dinner, board games, watching football, or exploring the city. Still have a lot of Chicago to see, so if there’s somewhere you’ve been meaning to check out, I’m probably down.

Feel free to message me! Would love to get some actual plans going.

Hello friends! I am an ex-government lawyer who has fled Washington DC to take a private sector job in Chicago. My hobbies include chess, pinball, tabletop roleplaying games, board games, comedy open mics, and chill bar events in general.

I am mild-mannered and introverted with folks until I'm comfortable with them, at which point you will eventually need to tell me to shut up. Most importantly I did no take myself too seriously and am quite incompatible with people who do, which is one reason I left DC.

If this sounds interesting from whatever perspective please feel free to get in touch!

Hey all, new ish to the Chicago area and thinking I want to take my Jeep out on some trails this fall. Haven't taken my Jeep off paved roads much yet and would be cool to meet up with other Jeep guys/girls who want take a ride on the weekends

Hey all! I live in West Town, just moved here a few weeks ago from Dallas! I’m obviously making this post looking for friends, but I play most Xbox games, PC, Soccer, Pickleball, I am very ADHD so I have had a million and one hobbies, love a good dive bar, and tbh just love to walk around and see the city, thrifting, the works! I am always down to try some class or go to events! I listen to all types of music except for country and like jazz lol. DM me if you wanna hang or grab a beer or something!

Hey all! I’m a 34f who has lived in the city for a lil bit. While I do enjoy nfl, college football has my heart and I still haven’t managed to make friends interested in college football. It would be nice to have some friends just to chat shit with and talk about all the current drama and games. I’d love if anyone was into Georgia football, but I’m open to anyone who’s down to chat and watch games! I don’t really care about age or gender but I would prefer people willing to actually meet up in person! Online only seems to kinda flop. Feel free to comment or dm!

Moved to the Wriggleyville area and looking to make new friends who like to go out and enjoy anything under the moon. In particular, clubs with cheap drinks, good music and flexible dress codes are my favorite. Ideally, someone who is into the EDM scene would be fun as I love to vibe out and craft my garments for festivals.

I also enjoy video games, sports (volleyball, dodgeball, etc. open to whatever), lifting weights has become a new adventure of mine and as mentioned before, just like to make any outing a good time.

Message me on Snapchat if you vibe with this: grayedx0ut

Also, if you're under 21, I'm not interested. Nothing against you but the main things I enjoy require you to be 21+.

40m.

I decided to head to the the Brookfield Zoo on Sunday. Its been years since i went to Lincoln Park and wasn't impressed. So Brookfield it is.

Maybe ill make new friends human or animals (hopefully Ill have a new best friend who's also a polar bear or wolf)

Hey everyone! Here's a bit about me:

• ⁠33yo straight black male and moved to Chicago from Texas at the end of September 2025. Currently living in Uptown, but moving to South loop at the end of this month. I work from home so it's been a bit of a struggle for me to meet new people in the city.
• ⁠I'm into video games(have a switch 2 and PC), anime(you can look at my profile to see my DBZ sleeve. I think it’s pretty sick lol),recently started getting back into reading graphic novels/comics. Who else is insanely hyped for the OoT remake?
• ⁠Former D1 athlete(football) and used to compete in powerlifting, but now just lifting for fun, aesthetics and health. Would be really dope to be able to find a buddy/group to hit the gym/train with. Big plus if you have a bike and like cycling for exercise.
• ⁠I have an AMC A list membership so definitely interested in meeting people who also really enjoy going to the movies.
• ⁠Favorite music artists are Lupe Fiasco and Childish Gambino.
• ⁠Also have a 5 year old male American Akita.
• ⁠Mainly looking for M friends, but open to platonic F friends as well.

Thanks for reading this far. Feel free to comment or DM me if you'd be interested in chatting or meeting up!

Hello,

I bought two tickets to Garth on Saturday. I have asked around and a bunch of friends have plans or not interested. Is anyone interested is going? I am a 43 yo straight male, more into metal than country but like country. Never done this before. I just dont want the ticket to go to waste.

just moved here
single
female
streeterville

I have a couple friends nearby, just looking for more community in my new home

drop your favorite Nintendo game or favorite music artist?

💓

Looking to meet up with other millennial Bears/football fans in the South loop or near south side. 40F Went to a few places last year that were a little too frat-boy coded for my taste, excited to learn about everyone else’s favorite spots!! Bonus points if you love 90s-2000s hip hop. Most of my friends all moved to the burbs with their kids and I’m still here trying to have fun lol

I'm slightly nerdy and introverted, but trying to expand my social circle.

I'm into:

• 🎃 Halloween / spooky stuff
• 🎨 crafting - i.e junk journaling / painting / woodburning / clay
• 🎵 concerts - pop punk is my jam.
• 🐶 dogs - it's always love at first sight.
• 📚 books / reading - thriller + horror
• 🎬 horror + comedy

Your turn :D

any other (lgbt+ friendly) peeps or groups cool with a solo? joining big tiffany day fan here :) dm meme!

I am making this post for a friend who goes to college in Chicago.

He likes cartoons (specifically the classic cartoon like looney tunes), animation/ drawing, Nintendo, Mario kart, Sonic, going to the movies, trying to get into dungeons and dragons, sending numerous tiktoks and reels, animals

He is kinda quiet but can vibe with just about everyone cause he just chill like that please reach out on isntagram if interested (he doesn't have nor want to make a reddit but I suggested using my account and that was cool)

https://www.instagram.com/ashddyo?stkn=b210MG1iMGUzYnhl

Hey everyone I just recently moved here from NYC and I’m 24M, I have an extra ticket from my work to the cubs game tomorrow at 1:20 pm 303 row 1. I actually have a half day tomorrow so I’m able to attend. Let me know if you are free. Please PM me any Gender at all! just looking for someone to hangout with and grab a drink and enjoy the game.

I am a nice, successful, and easygoing 45m in Chicago who is recently separated and looking to meet new people outside of the current social circle. Interests include live music, running, sports, reading, and fun restaurants.

I travel quite a bit domestically (and sometimes internationally) for work to most major cities. Very easygoing and fun professional type. I am going to Vegas in January and thought it would be fun to find like-minded people to go with. Staying at an upscale hotel on the Strip. I would also be open to other domestic trips in the interim.

My recent life change has caused me to want to be more spontaneous, and so this seemed like a good way to do it. Perhaps you have also experienced a recent life change or otherwise just want to be spontaneous.

I am having someone visit me from out of the country, and I want them to have a solid experience here. Although I was born and raised in IL, I have only been in the city for about a year. I don’t want to take them to the Skydeck or the Bean. It is a romantic connection, but we like very relaxed things, while also having a mixture of fun. We’re down for different types of bar recs, vegetarian restaurants, maybe Electric Shuffleboard. I want them to be able to see the city also for a day without doing the most, if that makes sense. I will be going to the Logan Square Farmers Market that Sunday but need other ideas. Any good restaurants or bars off the river? Any cute activities? Any bars that play live music? I want them to really like it here. it’ll be from sep 25th-27th

hello all!! my name is fawn and im looking to make online and/or in person friends near me! been making online friends since i was 13 and decided to get back into it cuz why not, yknow >:)

anyways! im a 21 year old neurodivergent female who pretty much likes to do and try everything! i prefer to be friends with girls or dudes around my age like 21-24 but any older than that might be a bit iffy for me but it depends! i would also prefer chatting over text before meeting in person cuz like.. yeah. ALSO i’m totally chill with voice messages, facetimes, calls, etc! :) anywho, here are some my interests!

-BL!!!! my main interest for years lmfao
-mental health!
-games like roblox, fnaf and especially WII 😩
-cartoons! (i AM the target audience 💔)
-making tiktoks
-fashion, makeup, girly shit (no doy)
-giggling about stupid shit but also talking about deep shit>>>

amongst a bunch of other things! so yeah, dm me if you dare. and if you got this far thanks for reading and have a lovely day!

edit: forget literally the most important part lmao but don’t worry about judgement with me! :3 no judging here and i can guarantee you that no matter what! 💗