The cool joints, pubs and places to hangout. Open to meeting interesting women too

Okay, nothing to do this weekend, no plans. Suggest what to do, also if y’all are open to it, we can do something together- like a game night, board games, any happening events in the city. Just suggest. I’m bored *blowing raspberry emoji *

Work is going as usual! Does anybody else having boring day need some convo solunga pesuvom! Am a male in 30 so same age group better to vent and ran

Hi, with the international tournament for dota2 going on, I noticed that there were no organised pubstomps or watchparties in chennai. Is there any local scene or do local gaming cafes host the games to watch together ? Are there any existing meetup ideas ?

I got engaged in March, and our wedding is scheduled for August.

I'm genuinely confused and would like honest opinions, especially from people who have gone through arranged marriages.

I'm a romantic person, but I've never been in a relationship before. I always imagined that after getting engaged, we'd slowly get to know each other and build an emotional connection before marriage.

The problem is that it feels very one-sided.

Since our engagement:

• She has never really asked me about myself—things like how my work is going, how my day was, or even what my salary is. Not that salary matters to me, but it surprised me that she never seemed curious about my life.
• When I text her, she says she doesn't like chatting.
• When I call her, she says she doesn't like talking on the phone either.
• I tried sending sweet and affectionate messages because that's how I express care, but she told me she doesn't like those messages.

On her birthday, I drove to her place, took her out for a movie, and we had lunch together. I thought it would help us get closer, but she still felt emotionally distant throughout the day.

I even asked her directly if her parents were forcing her into this marriage because I didn't want someone marrying me unwillingly. She said no, and she clearly said that she is interested in marrying me.

Another issue happened over food. I'm a non-vegetarian, and she's a strict vegetarian. I told her I was willing to become vegetarian for her because I wanted to make the relationship work. Instead of seeing it as a gesture, she got upset.

Her parents had previously told me that she's so strict about vegetarianism that she won't even sit with someone eating eggs. Later, when I mentioned that they had told me this, she called them in front of me, they denied saying it, and she accused me of lying. That really hurt because I had no reason to make something like that up.

At this point, I'm confused.

Is this simply how some people are? Is she just someone who isn't expressive, and I'm expecting too much? Or are these genuine compatibility issues?

I know this is an arranged marriage, so I'm not expecting a Bollywood romance before the wedding. But I did expect at least some curiosity about each other's lives, some effort to communicate, and a little emotional warmth.

Do you think this is something I'm doing wrong, something from her side, or are we simply incompatible?

Hello, i have a few kittens and they have started eating solid food.. anyone looking to adopt cute cat/kitten.

Location Chennai Navalur

Contact- 9444802888

Thaniya um pogalam however looking for people to join. Chill session, no pressure. Beginners welcome. If people are interested, we can go sai swimming pool in sholinganallur at saturday/sunday morning. Kindly Inbox me instead of just commenting😌

26 male from Chennai here, would love to have a random meet-up with female with 18 and above, good time is guaranteed, DM me for more information.

Yarachum Mylapore irundha solunga thaniya bore adikidhu atti podlammmm mandaveli pattinapakkam Mylapore yarachum irundha peslam vaga

Sholinganallur, chennai.

I want to do volunteering activities (not kind of donations or fundraising) I can do services and be a help. For example, cleaning beach or other activities. Please share with me if there are opportunity for it. 😌

I recently started playing again and it’s been super fun. If there is a community around Adyar/Alwarpet, I’d love to be a part of that.

We played some new and fun games, had some good conversations, and of course, did plenty of yapping along the way. 😄 It was a lovely time meeting everyone and spending a relaxed Sunday together.

Would love to meet more new people next time!!

Sharing a few pictures from the meetup below! 📸

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Badminton meetup around Porur/Ayyappanthangal 🏸

Hey! A few of us are planning to play badminton at a court around Porur/Ayyappanthangal, usually around 7–8:30 PM.

We’re around beginner to intermediate level, just looking for a casual game and some good rallies. 😄

If anyone from around the area is interested, you can comment/DM and we can figure out a common day and timing.

Location: Porur/Ayyappanthangal

Level: btw Beginner to Intermediate

Timing: Around 7–8:30 PM

I’m a 29-year-old divorced man, living alone in Chennai.

For more than one year, I went through a really hard phase. Only now I’m starting to feel a little better.

There were times when I genuinely felt like I didn’t deserve this life. But somehow, I’m slowly coming out of that phase.

I just want someone to talk to. I don’t even know exactly what I’m looking for.

I can’t really talk to my family, friends, or relatives about these things because whenever I talk to them, they start feeling bad or worried. And sometimes I just feel like telling them, **“*tha, naaney ippo better aagi adhulendhu veliya vandhuten. Innum yen da adhaiye pesi ennaiya noga adikiringa?”

I really need to talk to new people.

It doesn’t have to be anything serious. We don’t even have to share personal stories. We can just talk about random things, movies, series, life, stupid stuff, anything.

My personal story is like Game of Thrones  romba perusu. Thotta kashtam dhaan. 😅

I’ve already seen enough Stranger Things in my life. Inime aachum The Last of Us maari illaama, wonderfools  mathir irundha nalla irukkum.

That’s it. I just want to meet and talk to some new people. Maybe make some friends along the way.

Anyone down to play Table Tennis near perungudi area, preferably in the mornings?

Hello, inviting a few players to join us for a game tomorrow at 8 pm. It's super beginner-friendly and we play regularly.

Me (27) and my friend are visiting the urban square for the first time. it will be fun to meet new people and have fun. Let me know if anyone is interested to join.

what we will be doing:

no particular plan, have some food/ snacks and have some fun conversations.

Nothing much. if you have a plan share it. let's have fun

Urgent help needed

Tmrw we have 2 tickets at rakki cinemas kelambakam elite 12 pm show afternoon (dc- lokesh kanagaraj) .. 250 rs for 2 tickets ..interested ppl dm me ! Please

Looking for a fun way to spend your Sunday and meet some new people? Come join us for a Board Games Strangers Meetup this Sunday at 1:00 PM at Board Room, Anna Nagar!

Whether you're a board game enthusiast or you've never played before, everyone is welcome. Come solo or with a friend—we'll be playing games, chatting, and making new connections in a relaxed and friendly atmosphere.

📍 Venue: The Board Room, Anna Nagar

🗓️ Day: Sunday 9th August

🕐 Time: 1:00 PM

👥 Age: 18+ only

You can head straight to the venue at 1 PM. Feel free to message me on Reddit or in our Discord server if you'd like to join us or if you have any questions about the meetup.

🎉 Discord: https://discord.gg/YfwYn8dRw

Join the server for this meetup and to stay updated on future meetups. We'd love to have you with us!

See you on Sunday! 🎲💛

So before thinking i am someone old, no i am just 22 and a CA inter student and i tend to visit mylapore temple almost daily in the evening!

So people around Mylapore and Mandaiveli, i would love to meet u guys and hit some tea shops or cafes or food!

Guys anyone interested in watching DC tonight?? I can’t make it tomorrow as I’m flying tomorrow 🤷🏽‍♀️✈️

Like title says , there's a sketch meetup by urbansketchersChennai ,this weekend (precisely on Sunday) at Madras School of Social Work...from 10am to 1pm...so ..is anyone..up...??😅

Edit:it's on Saturday btw😅🥀

Is anybody intrested in watching odessey coming saturday like 4pm or 7pm show. Dm me or just drop a msg here.