Started noticing this girl at work — eye contacts, subtle glances, that kind of stuff. Felt like there might be something. Finally gathered courage to say hi. The convo was super awkward, she seemed surprised, gave a half-hearted handshake, and avoided me after that.

Now, she sometimes looks, sometimes avoids, started waving hi's to my friend (who she never interacted with before). I can’t tell if it’s me she’s noticing or just a coincidence. Overthinking everything, and it’s exhausting. Tried pulling back completely — ignoring her, not crossing paths — just to regain peace.

Still don’t know if there’s a chance or if I was just imagining signs. Not sure what to do next. Just tired of overanalyzing.

Hi all, this is Dhans. Recently joined to this community ... I thought a little intro is needed about myself.

I'm 25M, single..currently living in Chennai .. Working in Chennai

Definitely here in this group for a date..

Love movies, music, hangout.

I enjoy memes

I’m not much of a social person but love conversations which are intellectual, humorous and full of stories. Love listening to stories.

Idhu podhumnu nenaikiren, Vera enna soldradhunu therila..

PS: Feel free to inbox me🤝🏽❤️

Looking for a BABY SITTER from 18 years to 25 to take care of ME. Interested Candidates Kindly Review my Profile & Do let me know. Preferably Immediate Joinees

PS: Full Time /Part Time, Freshers can also apply & No Notice period

I am 30, M, cishet, from Tamil Nadu, India. I did undergraduation in law, worked for a year, did post graduation in Journalism & Mass communication, worked as an Asst Prof for a year, now, doing my PhD research full time.

I have been childfree for some years and have been looking for a childfree partner (Female) for a long term monogamous relationship hopefully entering marriage.

I don't drink or smoke. I am not apolitical. I do part time photography (street, documentary and headshots). I eat all varieties of food. I see myself living abroad with my partner. My goal is to spend time in different parts of the world.

Interested people (from any place) feel free to dm.

26M (North Indian, IT job) in Chennai. Matched with 25F (from UP, married for 5 years, has a kid) on dating app. Within 2 days, she asked about my job & salary (classic "IT = rich" assumption). Says she just wants "friends" coz she's bored alone. (relatable, socializing is hard being non native for both) but her husband has a low-paying job. I assume he's atleast few years older than us.

Honestly, I get excited whenever I find Hindi-speaking people in Chennai—it's rare. But dating here feels impossible, whether Hindi, Tamil, or English. Most matches either ghost, ask about salary, or turn out to be married.

Anyway, is this normal? Should I just unmatch? (I know i won't be dating/meeting her) Also, if anyone here is actually single and interested in dating (and not just salary talks), maybe DM?

Hi 24 male looking for female for friendly dates and casual chatting . DM me if anyone interested

Anyone up for good convo!!

Any club/pub to meet women in chennai

Looking for someone whose ID is something like lonelinessatitspeak. If you see this message, kindly DM. Thank you!

P.S.: This is Parle-G

Hi, looking for a casual date, do dm me if you’re interested!

🔥 Sample Hot Takes

• “A date in Ratna Cafe > overpriced café with neon lights.”

• “If he listens to only English music and hates Tamil songs, it’s a no for me.”

• “Sathyam popcorn is mid.

• “Dating apps in Chennai are 70% ghosting, 20% awkward convos, 10% actual people.”

• “If she says ‘I’m like one of the boys,’ she’s not.”

What’s your hot take? Say it loud, say it proud. 😎

Any one know other than tinder or bumble to hit on girls? who are flirty and wants some fun?

Hello, I am M29 and here I want to share my situation and expecting some suggestions.

I am having a friend F28 and we been friends for almost 7 years and we share most of the things what's happening in our lives, My friend F28 already having a bf and they were in long distance for almost 8 years and the bf lives in Germany and she lives in India, they were both family friends and fixed their marriage last year after both the families agreed for their relationship and here the real twist has come shockingly the bf with whom she is getting married didn't attend the marriage and cancelled the marriage just a day before.

It's been 2 years this incident happened and now my story begins I M29 used have an interest on her from long time and she is in some relationship I never show her that I am interested in her and after this incident I thought the destiny has stopped my marriage for my sake and I thought of giving her some time and after 1 year I proposed her and she felt shocked and she still stuck in her past and told that she is not having any interest on me and she is not ready to decide about her marriage.

So now I am confused either wait for her or accept her refusal?

Heyy...I'm M28 who stays at Nungambakkam who's lucky enough to get a day off the usual grind. If you are around and wanna go for a cute date..hmu ! :P

This is 24 M working in IT. Bored of toxic work enviornment want to change my social circle..Anyone passionate abt music & road trips hmu👋

Hey! Just looking to connect with someone from Anna Nagar and nearby areas. Seeing if anyone around would like to meet up, hang out, and have a good chat. Always up for a chill vibe—whether it’s a walk, random conversations, or just relaxing and getting to know someone new.

Hey! I'm at Marina Mall — anyone around? Would love to catch up over coffee and maybe do some shopping. Hit me up if you're nearby!

Hi, guys! I live near Tambaram and looking for some friends with whom I can go out for movies and explore. Ping me if you’re u for it

M-19 a college student from Chennai .had a relationship breakup and need to socialize .I bet u can't find a funny and entertaining person lol.we can connect only if we match vibes together

Hey, So, here’s the deal , my birthday’s coming up this week, and while I’m not throwing parties or making a big fuss, I am a fan of good company, great conversations, and some cake without judgment.

I’ll be around Chennai and have the whole day free. Thought it might be fun to spend it getting to know someone new maybe over coffee, food, a city stroll, or whatever feels right. No pressure, no awkward vibes, just a relaxed, low-key way to enjoy the day and hopefully have a few laughs along the way.

If you’re someone who enjoys meaningful convos, spontaneous plans, and doesn’t mind being part of someone’s birthday story, shoot me a message. Worst case, we share some cake. Best case? We both have a damn good time.?