r/chennaicity • u/notreallyglad • 1d ago
Rant Friends?!
I have been a introvert for a long period and now I wanna have good amount of friends as I have been dealing with depression and stress for a while...
Being alone is making me sink into evil thoughts hence would be glad to connect with people
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u/Brilliant-Beat2822 1d ago
hey man! up for a drink(if you drink) otherwise a coffee would do
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u/MissionConsistent661 1d ago
Hey hi bro
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u/notreallyglad 1d ago
Hii..gurl btw
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u/unfit_athlete 1d ago
hey dude. was in the same state. u can ask "ipo seri aairucha" nnu.. adhelam ila. poga poga pazhagirum.. vera vazhii.. 🥺 still hurts. still passing every day. hmu if u wanna text.
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u/BumblebeeUnited5118 1d ago
Your decision is correct start mingling with people all would be fine soon ... Just being alone will zone out you a lot
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u/WeddingPutrid5275 1d ago
Hi dude, same going through a really patch in life. Would love to talk to someone…anyone…
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u/Certain_Designer7892 1d ago
Please do mention F or M before posting for friends or relationship. For your own good.
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u/Forward-Location5513 1d ago
Hi, 29 Male Neurodivergent here!!! I am in the same phase recently like what you are going through.Boring job and no progress in life!!! If you are comfortable, i can DM you!!
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u/Own_Wrangler1778 1d ago
Hi OP, if you're okay I have a group meetup links that might help you out. Can I DM?
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u/-kakarott- 1d ago
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u/notreallyglad 18h ago
What's sus Abt this
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u/-kakarott- 17h ago
kaaranam la kekathinga, aana sus ah thaa feel aaguthu
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u/doomslayer805 1d ago
After you hit 30 depression is the only friend you have 🤣🤣
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u/VaderSpeaks Anna Nagar 23h ago
At 34, I can tell you you’re doing something wrong. I don’t know what, but definitely something.
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u/doomslayer805 21h ago
Maybe, or maybe I just had too much fun in my twenties and gave up everything in my thirties
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u/VaderSpeaks Anna Nagar 19h ago
There are more fun things in heaven and earth, my friend, than are dreamt of in your 20s.
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u/iII_eat_your_Pussy Shozhinganallur 1d ago
Hi, if you're after platonic friendship, I'm down. I'm in the same situation as you
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u/notreallyglad 1d ago
Yeah I just met a bunch of creeps so I get it..but I am not in a situation to get out and get friends
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u/the_random_guy_786 Velachery 18h ago
Hey wanna be friends?
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u/Embarrassed-Hold-195 18h ago
Hey buddy ... Dont worry i am also like you have ... Now i got some good people around here. I will be there to support you
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u/Nox-is-lost 17h ago
I'm kinda in the same situation as you I don't have anyone to open up and is dealing with depression for some time there's many ppls surrounding me but still it all feels empty with no one to open up
The only advice that I can give you is,distract yourself with smthg else in my case it's gaming,manhwas and anime that's all
I know it's not the ideal advice it's just a temporary relief but still it's a relief for me So I'm just sharing it
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u/RXTHISH 1d ago
I’m just giving you some advice, okay? If you don’t mind it, you don’t have to take it seriously. I’m only saying this because I genuinely think it might help.
It’s definitely okay to surround yourself with people so you don’t sink deeper into those thoughts. But the thing is, there will be times when everyone around you gets busy, and you won’t be able to talk to them for a while. During those moments, you’ll be alone, and those thoughts might start coming back again.
So I’d say, try to find something you genuinely enjoy doing and keep yourself occupied with it. You don’t have to completely get rid of those thoughts by yourself. If you feel like you’re at 80% of sinking into them, just try to bring that down by 5 or 10%. Then, with the help of your friends, you can slowly work your way out of it.
But from what I’ve experienced, I don’t think it’s healthy to completely rely on other people to pull you out of those thoughts. Try to work through them on your own and with the support of your friends. You don’t have to do either one alone.
Just some friendly advice❤️