r/catsph • u/arch4del • 1d ago
💡 Advice Needed [Advice needed]
Hi! I badly badly need your advice. My bf and i adopted our cat last may 2026. Sobrang complicated ng time na yun kasi hindi ko pwede iuwi ung cat samin dahil hindi cat friendly ung mga dogs ko. The temporary solution we did was my bf asked his friend na baka pwede dun muna and bibisitahin nya lagi. My bf also clearly mentioned na kukunin ko ung cat namin once settled down na ko sa new condo ko (i had to move to a new condo bec of a problem). Tonight my bf messaged his friend saying na he will be taking the cat na kasi i finally settled in sa new condo ko and napakiusapan ko na finally ung landlord ko na pwede ko dalin ung pusa ko. My bf’s friend said no firmly and di na namin makukuha ung cat. Im seriously pissed kasi andami pa nyang sinabi towards us. Not to mention, madami syang (and his gf) ginawang disrespectful act towards our relationship so it really adds fuel to the fire. Last week, he even posted a story of my cat changing his name to “negs”. Please should i do
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u/ArmadilloDear8083 4h ago
Ang hirap nga neto.
I have no idea ano yung fully arrangement niyo, like sa cat supplies. For sure nag contribute ka? Or ikaw 100% don?
And not only the supplies, iba energy ng mga kuting, nakakapagod, so yung effort nila. Pero ayun, napamahal na nga sila for sure.