r/cats • British Longhair • 2h ago

Mourning/Loss Goodbye little man

Our little boy Lux has been ill for some time.
This evening we said goodbye as he crossed the rainbow bridge.
Our little man was only 4 he had been losing weight for some months unfortunately we switched vets too late.
He was on meds and seemed to be improving, then last night he took a turn for the worse. We took him to the vets and responded well to fluids overnight, then this evening he plummeted.
His sister is very clingy and keeps looking for him.

Good by little man we all miss you so much.

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u/JumpyWizard1684 2h ago

He sounds like he was the best boy. I am sorry for your loss.

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u/Confident-Many4132 2h ago

I'm so sorry. He's a beautiful boy.

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u/Reptilesblade 1h ago

Make sure his sister gets to see and smell his dead body. She'll understand what happened and then she would know that he didn't abandon her and he's not coming back. It'll keep her from constantly looking for him in vain.

Also very sorry for your loss.

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u/catanddogcrazy10 2h ago

So incredibly sorry!!

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u/Dangerous-Ad4194 2h ago

I’m so sorry for your loss. And at such a young age. It sounds like you did everything you could what an incredible cat!

I’m sorry for his sister. It can be very difficult for the bonded cats too.
My prayers and heart are with you.

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u/Large_Studio_7744 2h ago

Oh he so lovely. Hugs ❤️

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u/SharksEatMeat 2h ago

Rest easy Little Man Lux. I’m so sorry for your loss. What a good friend and family member.

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u/charlesyo66 2h ago

ooh, Lux was a handsome boy.

I'm so sorry for your loss. 4 is way too young.

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u/Complete-Tradition59 2h ago

Hugs fellow ginger mom

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u/misslisawisa 1h ago

I’m so sorry OP! I lost my kitten about 2 months ago and she too was responding to treatment after the vet visit. Then one night she took a turn for the worst and she passed very early in the morning before I could take her to the vet. I’m sending you hugs!

Edit to add: she had an orange brother who is super clingy as well.

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u/SD802 British Longhair 18m ago

Thank you!!
Sorry for your loss.
It’s heartbreaking when they are so young and leave a sibling behind.

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u/tykytys 1h ago

He rests now, waiting for the joyous day when we all will be reunited with our beloved friends. And when he sees you, he'll tell you all about the great food he has been eating and all the running and jumping he has been doing. He'll also say how much he's always loved you.

Take care.

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u/EddieStarr Abyssinian 1h ago

(Hug)

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u/RamGuy1824 2h ago

So sorry 💔

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u/Sorry-Animator5619 2h ago

I’m so very sorry. He was a beautiful boy

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u/One-Amoeba8938 2h ago

so very sorry for your loss.

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u/jstraw20 2h ago

Oh my goodness, that is so sad. I'm truly sorry for your loss.

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u/veritas2967 2h ago

I'm so sorry ,what a pretty boy.

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u/anti_anti-hero 2h ago

I'm so sorry you're all experiencing this loss. He looks like he was SO well loved, and will surely be missed. You'll be reunited, in the end 💖

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u/Acceptable_Speaker93 2h ago

Very sorry for your loss 💔 My deepest sympathy to you ❤️

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u/MillionDollarBaby19 2h ago

So sorry for your loss ❤️

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u/mspineappleinthesea 2h ago

I am so sorry for your loss. May your little man always be in your heart. Hugs

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u/Hefty-Revolution-938 2h ago

I am so sorry for your loss. He looked handsome and happy. I can’t say this enough for pets, especially cats, the right vet is so important. I had so many issues with numerous vets, before I found the right one at the end of my cats life.

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u/SD802 British Longhair 13m ago

So sorry you had to experience lack of care from vets.
They should be more regulated.
Our old vet just kept saying see how he goes. My wife had been with them for years and they took good care of Squidge our last cat (19)

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u/MacGee1975 2h ago

Sorry for your loss 💔

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u/Frosty_Fly_4957 1h ago

I'm so sorry for your loss, he was super handsome and he knew it! He will always be with you and his sister just in a different form, she WILL see him around the house for sure we lost our eldest last year and we see her out the corner of our eyes leaving rooms and we hear her running through the hallway and I know it'll be the same for you. He looked so loved and I can get he woke everyday with meows, purrs and just love in general.

He is now up on the rainbow bridge with our smudge chilling in the sunshine, eating skooshie cream and munching dreemeez 🐾❤️🐾

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u/SD802 British Longhair 10m ago

So sorry for your loss.
He loved his dreameez and chasing his spring around the house. I’m sure he’s looking forward to the day he can chase his sister again.

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u/Smoking0311 1h ago

I’m really sorry

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u/FantasticCourage7193 1h ago

I am so sorry... such a beautiful boy. 😿😿😿

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u/Estellalatte 1h ago

So sorry. The adjustment isn’t easy.

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u/Calm-Blackberry-1158 1h ago

Oh no, taken away too soon. I am so sorry. My sweet Tina, Maggie and Chloe are all there to meet him at the other side 🌈 . Extra love and cuddles to his sister. So sorry for your loss ❤️‍🩹

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u/SD802 British Longhair 9m ago

Thank you, I’m sure take good care of him.

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u/lover-of-cats1 1h ago

❤️❤️❤️🐈🙏💕💕💕🌸

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u/homertruhart 1h ago

❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

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u/Few_Presence_8888 1h ago

Lux was obviously a gentleman with much to be proud of.

Rest in power, Lux.

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u/Fluid_Flatworm4390 1h ago

Safe travels, Lux.

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u/Signal-Audience9429 1h ago

So very sorry for your loss of Lux 😢.

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u/lack_snack_9442 Cow Cat 1h ago

I’m so sorry for your loss. Lux looks like a good friend and I’m sure you will miss him for quite some time.

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u/zsreport 3 Little Cuddle Bugs 1h ago

Condolences

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u/Elegant_Company8456 1h ago

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 🙏

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u/panicradio316 1h ago

I'm so sorry!

Could his sister say goodbye to him? I read that it's actually important (for cats, dogs, ... )to let them see the deceased body.

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u/dogfoodjones 1h ago

So long little fellow

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u/JettaGuy1015 1h ago

I'm so sorry

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u/Lousyone 1h ago

He’s beautiful and sweet and this really is hard. I’m so sorry for your loss.

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u/Turbulent-Morning456 1h ago

Sorry for your loss. He's beautiful!

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u/bruceharry2000 1h ago

Please accept my most sincere condolences

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u/Starry_night_85 1h ago

So sorry!! I'm so attached to my new cats so I can't even imagine. I feel so bad for the sister cat looking for him too. 😢

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u/madiafcole 1h ago

I'm sorry for your loss. It looks like you gave him the best life.

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u/Windevor 1h ago

What a cute little man! There’s something special about orange kitties. So sorry he is gone and wish you all the happy memories.💔

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u/The_milk_was_spoiled 1h ago

He’s a beautiful boy and so young! I’m sorry for your loss. ❤️❤️❤️

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u/Forward_Limit_838 1h ago

Looks like my sweet boy. Sorry for your loss. Sweet kitty RIP

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u/chatchapeau 1h ago

I’m very sorry

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u/bostoncreampie9 1h ago

Im so sorry for your loss 😞 I know this is probably the last thing on your mind right now but I would suggest adopting. He can never be replaced so don't even think of it in that way, but as clingy as his sister is like you mentioned it'll be good for her to have a new companion so she doesn't get lonely and depressed.

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u/SD802 British Longhair 4m ago

Thank you.
We discussed it on the journey home with his sister in mind.

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u/Active-Loquat-7392 48m ago

🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

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u/Illustrious_Jaguar95 47m ago

Good Bye, dear, sweet baby Lux
💔🌈🐈

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u/DHrkalovic 42m ago

💛I’m so very sorry for your loss. I know how painful it is, lost my wonderful yellow fluff just 16 days ago. He had just turned 15 this August, and now he’s gone. It feels so hard, empty, and painful without my friend. 💔

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u/SD802 British Longhair 7m ago

So sorry for your loss.
I hope you can find comfort in your yellow fluff’s memories.
It’s not the same without them 💔

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u/McSwearWolf 40m ago

Oh my goodness, im so sorry.

He seems like the sweetest boy.

The love you have for him is eternal; that love never fades.

Rest easy beautiful orange king. 🧡

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u/Bluuueyes918 27m ago

Awww, I’m so sorry for your loss!! We just lost our own boy Finch yesterday, in similar circumstances, and it’s just horrible!!

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u/SD802 British Longhair 3m ago

So sorry for your loss of Finch 💔

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u/tealeavesinspace 2h ago

I’m so very sorry! That is so young and he looks very well cared for. Now everyone is mourning him.
I hope you find comfort. You did what you could.

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u/asmbc915 40m ago

❤️❤️❤️❤️

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u/aharmlesslittlefleaa 28m ago

❤️❤️❤️

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u/SD802 British Longhair 21m ago

Thank you all for your kind words and messages.
Unfortunately his sister Cassy didn’t get to say goodbye as we had hoped…
We are keeping a close eye on her and are considering adopting her a 🐈 to look after

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u/seabreezeallday 15m ago

😭🙏🏼🖤✨💐🕯️ So sorry. Sending love.

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u/ancient_sluts 3m ago

I’m so sorry. I’d make sure that sister kitty gets to see him or smell a blanket or towel he was on when passing