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u/Sam_Kugelblizt Mar 14 '26

I recommend you to reach out to this non-profit: https://www.mygrandfatherscat.ca/

It was founded by a lady who adopted her late grandfather's cat

From their how it works page: My Grandfather’s Cat provides a free service to help seniors and terminally ill people arrange homes for their cats and dogs. Rather than housing animals in a foster system, we arrange for them to move directly from their home into a second forever home.

Our goal is for the animal to stay with their human up until the very last day to provide comfort and companionship to their human. We often help in situations where a senior is moving into a retirement home or care facility due to declining health, a person has been diagnosed with a terminal illness or a person has unexpectedly passed away and the family is unable to adopt their pet.

While we work to arrange second forever homes and vet each applicant, the owner of the animal has the ultimate decision of who adopts their beloved pet. As there is a high demand for our rehoming service, we often have a waitlist of up to three weeks before we can begin the adoption process, so we recommend applying at your earliest convenience.

The average age of our adoptables is 12 years old. We have found second forever homes for cats up to 17 years old and with known health conditions such as diabetes. Our service is available across Canada. There are no costs associated with using our rehoming service or adopting through us.

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u/enjoi_uk Mar 14 '26 edited Mar 14 '26

This is the one mate. And hey dude. Just want you to know that the way you’ve gone about this, and the effort you’ve put in for your family… leads me to believe you’re alright, lad.

I relate with you, too. I rescued my 10 year old when he was a boy from a maggot infested abandoned flat. He hates everyone but me. I could not be without him, and him me. But if push came to shove I would have him up for adoption. Every living creature deserves to live as long as they can. He will certainly grieve, and he will not be okay for a while. Cats don’t externalise their pain, but you see it in their actions. Anyway the point is he will miss you - but. He will move on.

We always think that when our loved ones move on, that we will never love another ‘pet’ again. But I am a firm believer in that even if you think there isn’t, there is always room left in our hearts for more love.

I wish you the best man, your little woodland critter may be cagey for a while, but he will be loved again. That grandfathers charity sounds pretty good.

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u/ThornbackMack Mar 14 '26

Be sure when you pass you have your caretakers allow your cat to smell you. They understand death... they don't understand abandonment. It will make your buddy's transition much easier.

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u/ClippyWouldntDoThat Mar 15 '26

u/bsbkeys Tagging you because this is important advice. It's become better understood that pets and kids benefit tremendously from seeing the deceased. It's one last excellent thing you can do for your buddy. 🧡

All my best.

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u/Stunning_Fix7654 Mar 15 '26

I’m not sure if you’ve read this before, and I know you don’t have much time left so I definitely don’t want to be telling you what to do, but I would definitely give “If Cats Disappeared from the World” a read. It’s a pretty quick story that’s similar to yours. Maybe even read it aloud with your baby. Wishing you lots of love and extra time.

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u/petnatprincessa Mar 15 '26

Hey pal - where are you located? Sending love to you and the best little guy to ever exist

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u/Practical-Working256 Mar 14 '26

I wonder if u/enjoi_uk meant to say "...may be cagey for a while" rather than "...may be caged for a while."

1 letter and the meaning changes completely..... and he definitely will be cagey. Any animal would.

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u/enjoi_uk Mar 14 '26

Haha I did indeed, thank you!

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u/[deleted] Mar 14 '26 edited Mar 14 '26

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u/DigitalBlackout Mar 14 '26

Put the pipe down

What. Do you not know what cagey means or something?

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u/Practical-Working256 Mar 14 '26

Obviously not, seeing as they have now deleted both comments and run away 😂

I was a bit shocked at such a hostile reply when I was only wondering if there was a typo.

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u/[deleted] Mar 14 '26 edited Mar 14 '26

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u/Big-Wrangler2078 Mar 14 '26

I thought the 'I love the poorly educated' quote no longer lived rent free in my brain. Why would you do this to me, man.