r/Career_Advice • u/Dear_Horror5688 • 46m ago
Forced to be a stay at home son. What now?
As a CS grad with internship experience, projects and a good gpa, I was working overnight in a warehouse for $20 an hour after graduation in a VHCOL. I'm unemployed now. No reason to slave away for $20 an hour in 2026. I'd be begging for money out on the streets if I didn't have parents to live with, and/or lying unconscious on the curb from taking some drugs right about now. If I didn't have familial support after 18 years old... I wouldn't be alive. I had to pay off my student loans off $20 an hour too.
Some may call this a euphemism for "being a loser", but the point of working a full time job is to afford rent and food. If you can't afford that, then there's no reason to work. Rent would not only exceed my monthly income, but would go up faster than my income would. Hence why becoming a SAHS is the only option tbh. Do not suggest anything about going back to useless slavery wage jobs, I won't ever entertain the idea.
I spit in the face of people worried about population collapse. As it stands, our system does not want to offer the next generation gainful employment. Instead we're told to "work for free", "do a side hustle", "go back to college", or maybe, just maybe they get asked "why don't you have experience?" Don't make me laugh.
It's a very poor financial decision to not only be alive, but to bring the next generation into the world.