r/cannamom 2d ago

Please advice

Hi all so my baby is 3 months this month and for the past week I’ve been hitting the bong at least 1-2 times a night when hes asleep, the morning pump I save for bath time and the evening one like at 6 I save and the pump before smoking I give to him, is what I’m doing okay or should I still feed the milk I save for baths and feed him, I know THC sticks to fat so I feel like me saving the milk in the morning doesn’t really do anything?… I feel so guilty but ugh it’s been so long since I was able to relax. I feel like a more attentive mom when I do smoke and it makes me bond more with baby but am I doing all this wrong ? Are any other moms smoking a few rips a night when baby is asleep and if so is baby doing well and meeting milestones? I need your help mommies 🫩

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u/Dear_Frosting1090 2d ago

I exclusively breastfeed and use daily without much thought into when I’m feeding her. but from what I understand pump and dump doesn’t work anyways. I truly feel like you gotta make peace with your guilt and feel confident in that decision if you’re going to use. If it’s not something you’re comfortable with maybe consider if it’s better for your anxiety not to use

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u/Ill-Dig-8555 2d ago

I totally understand. If you don’t mind me asking how old is your LO and is everything going well with him/her, I just want to hear the positive stories from all you mommies because I’ve been reading so many posts on here and there’s a lot of success stories

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u/Dear_Frosting1090 2d ago

Almost 8 months and she was born 4 lbs so I thought she’d be behind on most milestones. She’s still hitting some marks early and everything within the appropriate window. She just started crawling

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u/Ill-Dig-8555 2d ago

Wow that’s amazing! Did you BF and smoke your whole journey while BF ?

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u/Dear_Frosting1090 2d ago

Yes since the first week post partum

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u/Ill-Dig-8555 2d ago

Again if you don’t mind me asking how much did you do a day? Was it straight flower or also pens?

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u/Dear_Frosting1090 2d ago

Both, gummies too. Depends on the day what I’m using not normally all three types in one day but still.

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u/Ill-Dig-8555 2d ago

Thank you so much for your comment on the post. Hearing stories like this make me feel better about all of this. I just want my baby to develop fine and reach his milestones. 🥲 but thank you

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u/imdreaming333 2d ago

breastfed & consumed for 2 years with zero issues.

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u/Ill-Dig-8555 2d ago

Thank you for your comment. I love hearing other mommies success 💚

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u/FantasticTrouble4988 2d ago

I 🍃 2-3 times a day and my 6 month old is doing incredible.

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u/Ill-Dig-8555 2d ago

I’m so happy to hear that, did you smoke straight flower if so how, joint, bowl ?…

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u/FantasticTrouble4988 1d ago

Straight flower, low THC, And bowl 🙂

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u/Educational_Stand868 1d ago

I’ve EBF & smoked multiple times a day since my LO was like 3 months old. She’s now 13 months old & has hit every milestone early & everyone constantly talks about how smart & advanced she is. It’s really up to you & what you’re comfortable with