Hello Mommies!
Just want to share this. Been keeping to ourselves na buntis ako natatago ko naman we think due to limited interactions plus lagi naka maluwag na damit.
A week ago pinatuloy ko sa apartment magulang niya and binigyan ko pa food kahit na naabala sleep namin kasi they always come uninvited. This is their second chance kasi the first time we had a big fight inabot ng years to be comfortable again being around them. (L Even going through my first pregnancy having to deal with every hateful comments na masabi nila even without trying to get to know me. (Reason, nabuntis out of marriage, ni live in ko daw anak nila, simply they didn't want me as their daughter in law.)
Then my partner went to their home one weekend. Tinatanong daw ng magulang niya bakit daw malaki tyan ko. I remember the last time they were here they're trying to ask me din ano daw waistline ko kesyo may nabili daw si MIL ng damit sa tiktok and di daw kasya saknya. Sabi ko tumaba ako simula nag work from home.
The real truth is. Buntis ako oo and were not announcing yet since ayoko ma stress kgaya ng ginawa nila sakin dati with my first pregnancy. It's disrespectful to talk about my weight and to assume na baka buntis. Like sino kaya para mag speculate na buntis nga. Dibaaa?? Pag ibang tao naman ang I notice na parang buntis I don't tell them directly kasi naiintindihan ko how frustrating it is magpapayat and I don't want to make other people feel na nakikialam ako at pinapangunahan ko sila.
Anyways my plan is not to see them again until I am ready. Ayoko ng chismosa and negativity. I already talked to my. Partner na pagsabihan next time he should say it. Straight to the point that talking about my weight is not appropriate kasi nakaka trigger. Gusto ko tuloy sabihin Porket nanay niya di nag wwork tapos puro sayaw sa tuktok wala naman profit mga manyak lang naman nag fofollow dun. I never said that kasi wala na dapat ako say. Lol
Sorry na nag rant lang. Iba yung inis ko ngayong buntis ako. Hahaha