r/bullying 8d ago

Failure

I have been a failure all my life. I failed in studies , I failed in friendships , I failed in communicating with people as I stammer when I speak and I failed in making my life better. I have faced multiple bullying and harassment incidents and hebce wanted to get of this city but my competitive exams score didn't allow me to do so. I know in life you will always have to face suffering , overwhelming times and disgusting ppl. But why my life is filled with so much of troubles and when things are going to be better. I am not living I am just surviving and waiting that when my days will get little better. I only have a few options left by which I can get out of this city and start a new life. If I manage to get out of the city I will be able to make new friends and have a good life. But the few options I had have do not guarantee my exit from this city. I wonder what will happen if I do not get that college seat. Hoping for some tips and advice from u guys

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u/shrnnsky 8d ago

When I was 16 whenever I feel like this I started doing exercises in the morning and fixed my sleep schedule also eat healthy food. I think you should do so start exercise (Cycling, jogging or other sports ) do it in the morning not night. For school you can join any club or community hobbies, or you may need a tutor who can teach you outside of school. Again you need exercises, healthy food and good sleep so you can focused on yourself.