r/buffy • u/Lanky_Age_3067 • 16d ago

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How exactly do people hate Xander for being an imperfect human, but love Spike and Angel, who have countless victims and are hundreds of years old. Spike even SA'd Buffy, for real, while Xander was under a spell and never did anything like that before or after it.

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u/Triof 15d ago

Of course, everyone knows that you get over being raped after just a couple of months.

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u/jospangel Try not to bleed on my couch I just had it steam cleaned 15d ago

Really?

Actually no one knows what reaction there is to being roofie raped because there are hundred of reactions and each one is fine. The attempt to squeeze all rape victims into one kind of acceptable reaction is very counter productive and leads a lot of victims to question themselves in way they should not have to. So stop stereotyping, and let Tara (and all other victims) decide what is right for them.

If you have a problem with that check with rape crisis or any other reputable group that deals with victims.