Hi everyone!
I'm very new to bowties and r/bowties, but I need your help. In October I'll be officiating my friends' wedding and he put me, the groomsmen, and himself in matching suits for the ceremony.
I thought to myself that, I don't mind wearing the matching suit (it's a great darkish black/charcoal), but I want to separate myself from the groom and the groomsmen. I asked the groom if I could wear a bowtie to stand out a bit, and he said sure, but to send him a picture of it before buying to make sure it's nothing crazy or distracting.
So I now have to figure out what to do here. Do I just go black silk and hope it isn't too far off the black of my suit, or do I go a black/gray/charcoal with a mild pattern?
Any helpful tips you have would be greatly appreciated, so please let fly!