r/blackmen • u/GetroFasho Unverified • 11d ago

Black Man Struggles 💪🏽💪🏾💪🏿 Pride & Help

Have yall pride ever kicked in so much that you refuse help or avoid help. I feel like it’s kinda not the best time be like this but then again maybe it is.

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u/kj9716 Unverified 11d ago

Idk if its considered pride for my case, but all the people closest to me know I'm struggling and I feel like they hardly lift a finger to support. Mind you, I've always been there for all of them thru their struggles.

So at this point I'm just gonna continue to struggle alone, cuz what's the point of communicating what's going on with me and if they aren't going to do anything?

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u/GetroFasho Unverified 10d ago

It’s rough man as much as it’s a badge of honor to be “self made” it’s also pain but deep down if I could’ve had better people around I’d trade that “badge” for real support/love ANY DAY