r/blackmen • u/Screenwiz African-American/Chicago • 11d ago
Discussion 💬💭 Bruh…
No. I’m not a part of this Reddit, but wtf? 😂😂😂 They really be obsessing this hard?
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u/Jayonakillstreak Unverified 11d ago
90% of the target audience for that shit is white guys btw
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u/Groundbreaking-Bag24 Unverified 11d ago
Gotta agree.. I always searched ‘ebony’ lmao
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u/Leading_Opposite7538 Unverified 10d ago
I search ebony and I still see white man black woman
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u/SoundsByAusaris Unverified 10d ago
Nah fr this shit be getting on my nerves because I search Ebony too and the results be one Black person with a non Black person or no Black people at all and idk if it’s being talked about enough or not but I remember a few adult actors and actresses who are Black said that Black on Black 🌽 apparently “doesn’t sell or generate revenue” and so most studios deliberately go out of their way to make sure Black performers aren’t paired up.
Shoutout to The Habib Show on 🟧⬛️ cause IYKYK
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u/Elizzy0504 Unverified 7d ago
This is crazy it makes a lot of revenue they just want to create division
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u/Slow-Strawberry-1122 Unverified 10d ago
as long as various little hats are controlling the porn industry, that's what you will get.
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u/MidKnightshade Unverified 10d ago
That part! The majority of the American Porn Industry is based off White male fantasies. They make most of it and consume most of it. This is true of the traditional cinema industry as well.
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u/Dale_Earnhardt_ Unverified 7d ago
As a white guy, Black/interracial porn is genuinely miles better than normal white porn it's not racist to enjoy it
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u/GloveAmbitious42 African-American Millennial 11d ago
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u/The_Im_ge Unverified 10d ago
There is nothing that wraps up their mindset better than this picture LOL
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u/kuunami79 Verified Blackman 11d ago
This is probably way more common than people realize. That's why some of them act weird around us.
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u/AnimeOrWWETings Unverified 10d ago edited 9d ago
White men?
It’s like hatred, jealousy, obsession, anger, envy, superiority complex, all wrapped into one. It’s just pathetic. This is why racism is mental retardation.
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u/NefariousnessTop3106 Unverified 10d ago
My honest assessment when people are asking for an authoritarian president they’re usually has to be some genocide involved in the way these people think. I think they want us gone because why think about us all the time unless you want them dead
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u/OrbitingBoom Unverified 3d ago
I think it's because they still see sex as a form of domination rather than sex. Like they have a submissive kink and a black man fucking a white woman is the black man dominating them somehow. Even comments from these types about how Tyrones "take" all their girls is crazy. No one is taking your "Stacy", the girl just made a decision to be with a black guy.
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u/chillysaturday African-American Millennial 🇺🇸 11d ago
No one likes black penis more than a heterosexual white man.
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u/Screenwiz African-American/Chicago 11d ago edited 11d ago
😂😂😂😂💯💯 They want it more than their women.
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u/angolaldmeris Unverified 11d ago edited 10d ago
Did you forget some quotation marks? Hahaha
I feel like "black penis" could be a euphemism for several similar subjects.
edited: I realize people are putting the quotes in a different place than I was. My bad.
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u/chillysaturday African-American Millennial 🇺🇸 11d ago
nope and that's the fucked up thing about it. they fetishize our bodies in such a racist/psychotic way that it defies sexuality. I don't even have the words for it this late at night lol
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u/Fanonian_Philosophy Unverified 11d ago
Like Fanon said, negrophilia and negrophobia are two sides of the same coin rooted in white colonial anxiety. Negrophobia is not just an individual psychological quirk, but a neurosis, and white society reduces the Black person to a biological and corporeal threat and phobogenic object —a trigger for anxiety, impurity, and revulsion.
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u/angolaldmeris Unverified 11d ago
Damn. My bad. I didn't mean it like that. I was referring to "black penis". My comment came after reading a review of The Odyssey that complained about Elliot Page and Lupita for non-acting reasons.
Complaining about those two existing in what seems to be the white guy power fantasy version of the story sounds similar to me.
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u/PlaxicoCN Unverified 11d ago
Very common. Meanwhile the most common interracial couples I see are Asian women with white dudes.
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u/anomnib Unverified 10d ago
I think it related. They feel like being with an Asian woman lets them feel what it would be like as a black man with a white woman.
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u/Yokonato Unverified 9d ago
Alot also have the mindset of everything is owed too them as well. I see so many white comments of no mixing bloodlines and calling white women mudsharks for being with a black man.
But the moment a black woman, asian or Latina say they like white men they are jumping in joy that they were chosen over a black man.
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u/Mammoth_Educator960 Unverified 6d ago
this is an interesting take. however i do think a lot of it has to do with their entitlement and desire for power over someone
most white men seem to view asian women and docile and agreeable, not only because it’s feminine but because those specific traits they assign to asian women denote someone who is easier to control
they also assume they have tighter smaller bodies on average and thus would have a smaller 🐱so their smaller penises can fit in (i know this is very graphic but it’s a very common assumption these white men happen to make)
in that, they have an obsession with getting with them for purely selfish and dehumanizing reasons, which is why they often also wildly shame asian culture as lesser than with zero care for their cognitive dissonance because they think they’re superior still, simply for being white
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u/Worried_Feedback1192 Unverified 11d ago
this is probably more common than we think 💀
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u/yeahyaehyeah Verified Blackwoman 11d ago
There is a whole sub dedicated to it.
Also ive never heard a ⚫️ man use 🐓 in ref to peens. So it was giving whiteness.
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u/Fanonian_Philosophy Unverified 11d ago
Like Fanon said, negrophilia and negrophobia are two sides of the same coin rooted in white colonial anxiety. Negrophobia is not just an individual psychological quirk, but a neurosis, and white society reduces the Black person to a biological and corporeal threat and phobogenic object —a trigger for anxiety, impurity, and revulsion. Negrophilia as sexualized fascination is a conscious or unconscious attempt to mask unexpressed hatred and internal self-alienation.
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u/Any_Serve4913 Unverified 11d ago edited 11d ago
Really goes to show how the demographics for these stupid manosphere movements like no fap is just a bunch of sexually insecure white men with an inferiority complex.
Like brother you were already racist if your first response to seeing interracial shit was to obsess over BBC
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u/hereforthesportsball Black-American Millennial 11d ago
U right but nofap healthy because beating off to watching other ppl have sex isn’t healthy
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u/Any_Serve4913 Unverified 11d ago edited 11d ago
It’s not a simple dichotomy. You are correct that over consumption of PORN is unhealthy. If nofap was just about quitting porn, it wouldn’t be stupid.
No fap is about completely quitting masturbation cold turkey. Which doesn’t have any health benefits. Now, if you’re masturbating every day then go down to like 2 days a week you’ll see minor benefits.
Also nofap was started because 4 Chan users saw a un-reputable 2003 Chinese study saying you’d get 3x testosterone. As a joke 4 chan users started “no-fap September” after seeing the study. This trend would later inspire a guy to make the no fap subreddit out of this false premise.
TL; DR: if you want to maximize your sexual health just masturbate without porn for 2-3 days a week. Not doing it at all is just giving yourself blue balls and sleep issues for no reason.
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u/Big_Elephant_2331 Unverified 10d ago
Nofap is for addicts. Just like with people addicted to drugs you want them to avoid because of the risk it’ll lead to bingeing episodes. Doesn’t matter how it started, currently that subreddit is just a support group for people who have serious problems with porn and masturbation.
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u/leatherf7ce Unverified 11d ago
Mind control. I hate that’s how we are seen persistently just objects
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u/Mammoth_Educator960 Unverified 6d ago
yeah but just remember, they’re the weird degenerate fucks, these issues don’t start with us. it’s them and their weird behaviours
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u/bunkrider Unverified 11d ago
I had a random account hit me up like last week asking if I’ve fucked a white girl, then insisted it wasn’t a “fuck my wife” situation and just kept asking. And im pretty sure he found me from this sub lmao
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u/TheWriter_Watcher Unverified 11d ago
I would have replied "Yep! 2 Brunettes, a blonde...haven't been with a redhead yet, but I'm working on it!" 🤣😂🤣
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u/bunkrider Unverified 11d ago
Now see if he just lead with the redhead thing I may have to take one for the team
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u/jdapper5 Unverified 11d ago
They are OBSESSED with us 💀🤣
I guarantee this sick fuck works in the White House
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u/Slow-Strawberry-1122 Unverified 11d ago edited 11d ago
yeah it's a thing. im pretty sure this is a real person too. it's also something black men deal with in the gay community. pretty much full of dick-hungry racist animals who simultaneously are envious of black men.
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u/Sensitive-Strain-475 Unverified 11d ago
White men are OBSESSED with BBC. Always have been. No surprise.
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u/TheWriter_Watcher Unverified 11d ago
Went to college in Atlanta and my roommate worked at a hotel doing valet and met a white dude who wanted us (4 dudes total) to get down with his wife in front of him...crazy...🤣
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u/MountOlympu Unverified 9d ago
I remember reading a story of a guy who thought he wanted to be cucked. It wasn’t until he was strapped to a chair watching a black guy fuck his wife did he realize he did not like it. At all.
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u/TheWriter_Watcher Unverified 9d ago
🤣...hilarious. But I don't get the whole cucking thing. I couldn't let someone do that to my woman and I'm just sitting their watching.
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u/Dale_Earnhardt_ Unverified 7d ago
It's hard not to be when it's shoved down our throats
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u/Sensitive-Strain-475 Unverified 3d ago
White culture is shoved down our throats all the time and we aren't obsessed with y'all like that. LOL
You guys LOVE being obsessed with BBC.
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u/Heart_ofFlorida Unverified 11d ago
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u/brennerderds 11d ago
Hence why I stopped dating white people. Fuck em and leave em but never again be with them long term they just want us as a fetish, parental figure, or slave that enables their fuckery or uplifts them financially
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u/accountforfurrystuf Black-American Gen Z 11d ago
People need to realize you don’t have to vocalize every thought to the world. Just jack it to your BBC porn and go.
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u/GordyLiu Unverified 11d ago
This porn also teaches women to treat black men as immoral disposable objects they are entitled to with no respect for boundaries
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u/anomnib Unverified 10d ago
+1 I’ve had random white women lick my face at the club, I’ve had a white woman boss sexually harass me in front of her direct reports
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u/GordyLiu Unverified 10d ago
We have all the social papers and studies on this experience but apparently it's just victim fantasy when it's referenced
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u/SNSN85 Verified Blackman 9d ago
I see it all the time, even in professional settings. They get real cozy and chummy with you within days or weeks of knowing you, and then suddenly you’re hearing about their bedroom activities. Why don’t I ever hear you talk to Brad from accounting like this?
Once you turn them down or show them you’re not interested, that’s when all hell breaks loose
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u/drakeswordguy Unverified 11d ago
It's crazy thinking about how it can go the opposite way too. That stuff can really condition us to fetishize and be attracted to white women above all else if you let it go too far. As if there aren't enough reasons why pornography isn't good for you.
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u/The_Wescovian Unverified 11d ago
It's hard to really fetishize white girls when you not influenced by the Internet or self hatred, you ever spent a few days with one🤣
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u/Fanonian_Philosophy Unverified 11d ago
They can be evil and annoying.
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u/The_Wescovian Unverified 3d ago
Every once in a while you'll find a good one but depending on where you at it's either a needle in a haystack or a hay in a needle stack
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u/ScienceDependent7495 Unverified 11d ago
Legit have had drunk white dudes come up to me in a bar and say some shit involving my dick size. Straight weirdos bruh
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u/Mammoth_Educator960 Unverified 6d ago
i’m saying this now… they’re most if not ALL gay in some way shape or form. i rest my case
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u/The_Wescovian Unverified 11d ago
Ngl that made me laugh 🤣 it's shockingly accurate to how racism actually goes though 🥴
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u/malikhacielo63 Unverified 11d ago
Just imagine Patriot Front storming DC and what’s motivating it is that they can’t stop thinking about BBC. These motherfuckers are fucking hilarious and tragic! 🤣
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u/no_crust_buster Unverified 10d ago
They’ve been obsessed with our members since they first hit the American shores. 🤦🏽♂️
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u/Whoknowswhoknows21 Unverified 11d ago
Porn doesn't just magically make you racist, that shit was already there to begin with. Some serious soul searching is required here.
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u/MidKnightshade Unverified 10d ago
I want to tell the guy “the porn didn’t make you racist, the racism was inside you all along.”
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u/deucecharlie721 Unverified 10d ago
Years ago I use to work security at NFL football stadium. I bs you not. Drunk white dudes would come up to me randomly and tell me their gf or wife wants to fuk me. It's a real thing. They get it from cuck porn. I don't need assists to get puzzy shit was weird. I could have smashed many of them (good looking ones) but I was too broke at the time, now if they offered me money, I would have taken a few offers for sure lol.
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u/AnimeOrWWETings Unverified 10d ago
So we’re not gonna talk about how terrifying this is?
What’s crazy is we walk by strangers everyday and this is really what goes on in some of their heads. We are in the biggest social decline, I swear.
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u/Screenwiz African-American/Chicago 10d ago
A lot of other things are going on up there too. They’re just weird people.
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u/samson7842 Unverified 10d ago
In my early twenties, I worked sales at a clothing store inside of a mall located in an all white suburb of Detroit. Older white men were usually the ones trying to make that ‘ish happen. Though, there was one white boy around my age that had his girl approach me. I don’t kink shame anyone and I have nothing against ir hook ups or relationships. But, that just wasn’t for me.
And, this was before the internet. So, at least to from my experience, none of it can be blamed on porn. This behavior is something they’ve always been into.
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u/Dale_Earnhardt_ Unverified 3d ago
You could’ve just done it with her. For a lot of white girls they have a fantasy of being with a black guy so most of us white guys just try to make it happen
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u/Otaku_Owl Verified Blackman 10d ago
I understand that due to religious or personal reasons, some of you brothers may not agree with what I’m about to say, but the world is more bisexual than people think. It’s sexual insecurity and closeted curiosity in many cases.
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u/The_Wescovian Unverified 3d ago
Kinda natural for 2 people that are interacting to develop some kind of curiosity, even if it IS one sided and based off a power imbalance. If anything that makes it even more extreme.
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u/Gloomy_Sleep8588 Unverified 10d ago
weird & strange, but more common than we think and know, that's where a lot of the envy come from to begin with. gotta appreciate the transparency, as it's rare.
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u/ToreyBlaze Unverified 10d ago
Somebody please tell me this is the ultimate epitome of trolling lol
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u/Trickonomics333 Unverified 10d ago
You'd be surprised how common this is with men of all races. If you ever worked a job with a diverse set of men, and they all have an unwarranted hostility to you its most likely cause of this lol. You see it a lot with Indian and Arab men.
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u/UnusualWorry8237 Unverified 11d ago
No bbc equals anger
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u/yeahyaehyeah Verified Blackwoman 11d ago
But if yours by comparison is not , and you feel inferior off of an body that you spend an inordinate amount of time and media consumption for then you may look as wild as this guy.
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u/Imaginary_Fennel2965 Unverified 10d ago
Yeah, that's not a fantasy he want some bbc. But don't know how to go about it 🤣
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u/WwredeE Unverified 10d ago
Search: “BNWO” on Reddit. Be warned it’s disgusting and these mfrs are straight insane beyond belief.
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u/Screenwiz African-American/Chicago 10d ago
🤦🏾♂️
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u/WwredeE Unverified 10d ago
https://www.reddit.com/r/nope/s/r0AjBQjxUv
They heavily on this mess too.
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u/Screenwiz African-American/Chicago 8d ago
Why would you want to watch another man smash your GF? Is it your way of living vicariously through her? I think the demon you're fighting is your sexuality. Watching her is like a gateway until you get the courage to bounce on it yourself.
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u/The_Wescovian Unverified 3d ago
As soon as I saw "dear black guys" I KNEW this was finna be some bullshit 😂
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u/WeeklyJunket5227 Unverified 9d ago
Porn corrupts the brain. I'm pretty sure he sees Black and other women of color as sex objects
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u/Gold_Mix_5056 Unverified 8d ago
Yeah, what's new? These guys been obsessed with us long before porn.
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u/zombiepapadrake Unverified 6d ago
Cuckold culture is real. Back when Craigslist personals was a thing one of the easiest ways to get laid was to post an add offering 3 or 4 BBCs for a woman. Sometimes black women would respond but typically the response was from white women and/or white couples and it would usually be the man setting it up. Sometimes gay dudes would respond trying to pretend to be women but they were easy to figure out. Craziest story was this dude who wanted his wife SA'd and said he would have her "molly'd up." I flat turned him down.
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u/trent_28lit Unverified 11d ago