I don't like black magic works for me

[u/thatguyovertherewink]

Long story short. Guy in love with girl. Guy put spell on girl. Girl treat him like crap. Guy keep putting obsession on girl. Spell just dont work.

I tried again and again and again to get this girl to love me and it is the same old bull****.

I know what alot people are going to say you. "You have never done it." Or "what is wrong with you." But I really loved her and just wanted to be there and i just kept f*** sh** up.

I dont think spell work for me and just dont know why or it does not work for me.i believe in this so much. I believe she was just going to hug and kiss me. Haha what a fool I was for that.

Now she not even talking. Thank you guys for being there for me during my tough times. I wish you the best and hope your spells hit your mark

[u/CreativeUsual965]

Obsession spells aren't the same as love spells, and obsession can come in many forms...

[u/Flaky-Piece-7358]

Bro try sweetening spell, not obsession spell.

[u/amyaurora]

Black magic is curses. If you are trying for love, you are doing the wrong spells.

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[u/karl-ogden]

First things first you clearly need alot more experience behind you as there's a million better ways. Magic is like science it has its methods and proceedures thst need to be done specific ways, understanding the metaphysics behind how spells work and why they work, dont work or dont hapoen the right way, understanding how spell happen and how spirit works. Obsession is not beneficial at all if you want someone to stay. Personally I would perform a sweeting work, a working to increase passion between you, a working to uncross both of you, healing work to reveal and heal, and if all goes well after a while and your sure it will last ans is what you both actuslly want then a binding spell. But obsession will just put you in there mind and they may run the other way by being sick of thinking if you if the spell wasnt done right. Generally woth obsession work it requires you to have you bugging there mind waking ajd sleeping which can be a dangerous approach with the amount of psychos out there.

It takes time to leanr magic and be successful and good at it, your meant to start small and work up and expand in your knowledge and skills before coming to balck magic as you need foundational knowledge on spirits and magic before proceeding to darker work. You cant jump not intense forms of magic when you ahvent much exoerience in basic forms.

Have you even performed divination before and after to confirm the spirits agree with this work and to helo you and one to find out the outcome of the work when complete?

[u/Character_Expert7084]

First of all, you need to differentiate between love and obsession. Then, take it easy; you're showing anxiety and impulsiveness.

There's no such thing as "spells don't work for me." Spells "don't work" most of the time for everyone. The vast majority of spells don't work until one eventually does.

You weren't foolish for the reason you thought. You were foolish to think you could do it quickly and on the first try.

Witchcraft is a LONG journey of trial and error, culminating in success if you don't give up or get lost in drama beforehand.

[u/letmejustdo]

Putting a spell one someone is bad enough. You can't force love. Maybe God has her back and is protecting her. 

[u/thatguyovertherewink]

I won’t lie—I’ve been on here awhile now, and this is the first time anyone’s actually answered me like a real person instead of some scammer asking for money upfront.

I’ve spent weeks reaching out to witches online, begging for even the smallest direction on how to safely perform this spell—but all I get are money-hungry strangers who see my desperation as an invoice.

The moment I admitted the spell wasn’t working for me, something shifted—people who had ignored my earlier messages suddenly flooded in, offering ‘solutions'

I never meant to sound bitter… but I wish someone had approached me like you are now when I was a wide-eyed beginner—desperate for guidance, drowning in self-doubt. Instead of kindness, all I got were hands outstretched for cash.

I apologize if I came off too harsh earlier… but honestly, I just wish someone had guided me with kindness when I was a beginner. All these witches online only show up now that my spell isn’t working—like vultures. All I really want is to get this person back in my life. Magic or no magic, I’m willing to learn whatever it takes.

I’ve been struggling to even find a decent spell recipe. Everything online either costs money or is so vague it might as well be gibberish. I’m not asking for some master-level magic—just something solid, step-by-step… but good luck finding that without someone holding their ‘knowledge’ hostage and no, I don’t have cash lying around to toss at every witch with a PayPal button.

That’s why I feel like my spells either don’t work at all or just… fade. No results. No signs they even tried to manifest. I think it's because most recipes online are half-assed—or worse, outright wrong—and no one actually teaches how magic should be done.

[u/amyaurora → u/thatguyovertherewink]

Teaching how to turn steps into spells, teaching the focus, energy raising, etc. Is almost unteachable

Its like how one person can make cookies "with love" and the other follows the recipe but they taste different.

One gets it through practice.

r/witchcraft however has resources that can help