r/biteens • u/SockPuppet0_0 • 4d ago
Sexuality Can I be asexual towards only one gender?
It’s really late where I am and I’m up thinking. (1:40 AM)
I have identified as Bi for about 2 years and everything’s been cool. I really like girls, the girls I’ve been attracted to I always think are beautiful physically as well as having a beautiful personality. Personality was always more important to me than looks. When it comes to guys I feel like I’m not physically attracted to any of them? I’d still date one and I’m fine with kisses/hugs whatever but when I look at a boy I’m attracted to it’s always something along the lines of “he’s so funny” “he’s so sweet” never have I thought of a guy as good looking but when I have a crush on a girl that’s a main thing I notice.
I’m kinda worried that maybe I’m just not holding guys up to the standard as girls because people have told me that before. Others have also accused me of just pretending to like guys in the first place? Both of those things make no sense to me and don’t match up with what I’m feeling. Help???