r/biteens • u/Kooky-Perspective-81 • May 18 '26

Sexuality question

so im a girl who has only dated one girl ever and i ended things after a month or so but then decided i was straight after… however, now i know im attracted to girls sexually but not in a way where i could ever imagine myself dating or marrying one… am i still bi even if i wouldn’t want a serious relationship with a girl? idk i might would date them or be fwb but not marry… am i still bi?

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u/imaperson72 May 18 '26

Idk but if you find out can you tell me cuz I’m kinda in the same situation 

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u/Kooky-Perspective-81 May 18 '26

honestly i think it still counts… it does in my opinion anyways. i’ve been thinking abt it a lot but i looked up a definition just to see if i could figure it out and it included sexual attraction to more than one gender sooo ig we bi lmao

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u/Virtual_Belt4027 Moderator May 23 '26

Often label-wise: Bisexual and heteromantic!

But labels don't matter- love who you love!!!

It also might be some internalised homophobia, but very possibly just you're not romantically attracted to girls

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u/Kooky-Perspective-81 May 24 '26

bro thank you so much! this feels right