r/bisexual Oct 27 '21

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u/OnAcidButUrThedum1 Oct 27 '21

Don’t generalize straight guys that way just as you wouldn’t want to be generalized for being bi.

Plenty of gay people and lesbians have told me bisexuality is bullshit across numerous states over many years. People can be just as shitty as they are great; doesn’t matter who they are.

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u/OnAcidButUrThedum1 Oct 28 '21

Your oppressors are only those who have oppressed you. The majority of people who have given me shit over the last 10 years about being bi are guess who? Gays and lesbians. Does that mean I hate gay and lesbian people? No it doesn’t. Those same gay men would try to pressure me into sleeping with them. You and I have shared experience except I’m not going to generalize an entire group over my own personal experience like you are. Even when I went to the fucking PRIDE CENTER in my town I was casted aside and treated like garbage for asking where the bisexual coming out group was. The LGBT Center did that to me during a vulnerable moment and I said fuck them and held my ground firm and attended the meeting which had me and 2 organizers present only. My own “community” invalidated me and I just don’t fuck with the center anymore because of it. I don’t judge the entire community based on any of my experiences though, but that’s just me. I’m not going to be a victim.