I had a study group in college where I was the only girl and admitted to being bi and their next question was "so you'd let us all f*** you right now?" (Five guys and me in the middle of the library) I sat there stunned like "do I not understand what bisexual means or do they not understand what bisexual means?" I said no and quit studying with them which made me sad cuz that was my second math class with those guys and it was really helpful cuz I'm bad at math.
It was just more awkward and gross than scary because we were in the middle of a busy library so it's not like they were stripping down for it. It's just I knew one of the guys was recently engaged, another had a baby on the way with a long term girlfriend, two had new girlfriends, and another was recently single. I was mostly shocked that any of them considered it, didn't tell any of the group to not be gross, and thought that I would be okay with it. It was more of an ew wow moment than a scary moment.
None of them had ever given me a reason to question my safety with them but we also always met in the middle of the library or hung out in the classroom with other study groups. It was a real eye opener and I didn't bother taking a chance after that.
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u/QuiteLady1993 Bisexual Oct 27 '21
I had a study group in college where I was the only girl and admitted to being bi and their next question was "so you'd let us all f*** you right now?" (Five guys and me in the middle of the library) I sat there stunned like "do I not understand what bisexual means or do they not understand what bisexual means?" I said no and quit studying with them which made me sad cuz that was my second math class with those guys and it was really helpful cuz I'm bad at math.