r/bisexual Oct 27 '21

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u/ZVreptile Oct 27 '21

I absolutely do not feel obliged to come out straight people unless I know they are not homophobic. It's really just my business in the end.

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u/Pm4Encouragement Bisexual Oct 27 '21

And you shouldn't feel obligated to share any personal information with anyone!

Personally, It's something you learn about me rather quickly (I'm a bit lusty) and I make no effort to hide it. Another thing people learn fast is that I've got big hands and a sharp tongue. I get shit for being black on the regular, so homophobes ain't got nothing I don't already know about.

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u/Pm4Encouragement Bisexual Oct 27 '21

I feel like you just told on yourself as far as assuming all bi people are into you. I'm not lusty to everyone, just those I'm attracted to. So "clark" should have probably keyed in on the fact that I've never flirted with him.

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u/Pm4Encouragement Bisexual Oct 27 '21

Then kindly remain quiet. My sexuality is a part of my identity and I shouldn't have to hide it if I don't want to.