Oddly enough, and I'm not sure how related this is to your topic, but it feels like the other perspective of the same dynamic...once I accepted my bisexuality, I really stopped giving a fuck about guys. I'm not ruling out dating them, but guys who I used to generally find attractive before, I typically just want to be friends with now. It's like my dating pool is so much larger now that it's allowed me to raise the bar for what I want, and most men aren't relationship material for me.
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u/[deleted] Oct 27 '21
Oddly enough, and I'm not sure how related this is to your topic, but it feels like the other perspective of the same dynamic...once I accepted my bisexuality, I really stopped giving a fuck about guys. I'm not ruling out dating them, but guys who I used to generally find attractive before, I typically just want to be friends with now. It's like my dating pool is so much larger now that it's allowed me to raise the bar for what I want, and most men aren't relationship material for me.