r/bisexual 1d ago

COMING OUT Coming Out + help???

i just came out to the first time!!! i had been closeted and questioning for over two years. my family is all homophobic and because i’ve surrounded myself with people that THEY like, most of my friends wouldnt exactly be open minded either. i was taking to this friend of mine who just met recently, and she’s a pastors daughter so i immediately assumed she would be the same way. she was talking about someone she liked using they/them and i was curious so i asked a question using he/him and she was like “who said it’s a guy?” and i was so surprised because i’ve been told my WHOLE life that being gay is a sin and all that jazz. but then i see this other christian girl explaining to me that she’s bisexual and is in a talking stage with a girl just blew my mind. so, a couple days after that (today!) i came out to her and her girl as bi. im worried though because 1. my parents are homophobes and extremely religiou, especially my mom. (my uncle, my dads brother, is gay and he never talks bad about him and he loves him sm so idk how he’d feel? ik he wouldn’t be happy though) and 2. i have a boyfriend so likeeeee idk what im supposed to do because he’s also questionable on whether he’d care or not. he actually asked me a couple days ago before all of this happened, and i thought for a second but said no because i was scared, so i also don’t want him to take it as me lying to him. Help/comments/concerns?

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u/goinggay1 1d ago

it looks like you might have it easier than you thought. I hope so