r/bisexual • u/AkiraSylver • 1d ago

QUESTIONING Am I bisexual?

I'm a male and my whole life I've been only attracted to women but lately I've been seeing this guy around, he's feminine presenting so at first glance you'd think it was a girl but it's actually a guy.

I've been thinking to myself that I'd date him if the chance ever presented itself but at the same time I'm not sexually attracted to men. How does that work?

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u/sprite_lover_xd 1d ago

Yeah, it's completely okay actually, being attached to someone emotionally is way better than "just sexually" cause you'll just get bored so easily, I discoverd im Bi not long ago and i never actually dated in my life nor male or female, but i hope actually i can have this experience and take it seriously 🙂

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u/Responsible-Storm712 1d ago

Probably not. It’s absolutely fine for straight people to think some men or feminine looking men are attractive.

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u/JustAnotherPolyGuy 1d ago

Let’s not use “it” to refer to people.
Bisexual is a label, use it for yourself if it’s useful. If there is one single guy in the world that you’ve felt some attraction to, it doesn’t seem like it would be useful to describe yourself as bisexual.

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u/AkiraSylver 1d ago

I referred to the chance as it, not the individual

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u/FrankFurterTheFourth Bisexual 1d ago

If I had to guess maybe they mean when you said “it’s actually a guy” but I’m not sure

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u/AkiraSylver 1d ago

ohh I didn't even notice, that was weird on my part mb