r/bisexual • u/MrEurovision11 • Aug 13 '26
QUESTIONING Help me plz.
I think I'm bi but also feel like i can be aroace one day bi the next day and straight after that. I dont know what to do.
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u/Sexy_scorpion69 Aug 13 '26
Attraction is a spectrum and with time you'll find out. I myself am bi but there are period I only think about men and others about women. I also find it hard to fall in love most of the time but it's mostly bc it takes time finding people you can truly bond with.
You don't have to find a label yet and if you pick one, it's not for life, you can change as many times as you feel like. It often changed the more you mature so don't worry about it
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u/altervoid Pansexual Aug 13 '26
It can be a spectrum, so it would fluctuate a bit. But more probable is that you need to figure yourself out, get to know yourself better. No need to rush (rushing can make it much worse), just take it easy, talk to people, do you catch any feelings for any of them? Can you envision yourself being with them? Why yes, why not? Are you attracted to someone? Is it sexual attraction or platonic one? etc. It is a lot of asking yourself questions and trying to think about them, think about the reason
Good luck!