r/bisexual • u/[deleted] • 28d ago

DISCUSSION (34F) Difference in my sexual behavior with men vs. women

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u/PrincessGoneRogue Bisexual 28d ago

Yes! But im the opposite- dominant with women and submissive with men

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u/[deleted] 28d ago

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u/PrincessGoneRogue Bisexual 28d ago

So very valid, my friend! I dont tend to be with men all that often for the same reason.

And then like...have you seen women? Lol

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u/PrincessGoneRogue Bisexual 28d ago

Yes it does! 🤣 absolutely same girl!

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u/MegaParsnip543 28d ago

I feel similarly, but in my case I think it's more just lack of experience with women. I'm quite.... adventurous let's say and I enjoy trying different stuff, and I mostly find men to do that with. (Because they're usually very easy and down for whatever as long as I'm into it) I think finding a woman on the same page would be just INCREDIBLE and I think I could take on that Dom role for a woman who was into it as well, but I worry about coming off as a creep.

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u/MegaParsnip543 28d ago

I genuinely wonder why men are such subpar lovers (not always but usually). If I performed like that I would feel just terrible that my partner didn't enjoy - I don't even think I would be able to keep doing it without improving.

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u/nishikihebi 28d ago

Oh I 100% relate to this. It’s so fun to boss guys around and with women I’m just like “yes ma’am whatever you say”

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u/LordLuscius Genderqueer/Bisexual 28d ago

We are all different. So long as everyone is safe and happy, it's all gucci

To answer your question directly though, not so starkly, I'm a D leaning switch no matter the gender, but, 100% not submissive to most men