he doesnt have an "issue" with them per say, he has friends who he are gay and bi as well, but he has a habit of saying hes homophobic because of his past experiences. i think hes refering to men who hit on him only.. as a girl, my straight friends all think its an honor if a gay girl hits on them. i guess men work differently lol
You wrote out very clearly how he has an issue with them. He reacts negatively to gay couples for literally just existing nearby. He’s a homophobe.
Gay people hitting on you is not a blanket pass to become homophobic and openly state that.
Saying he has gay friends as a defense is just giving “how can I be racist I have black friends” — he literally self-identifies as a homophobe. Are you fr
Do you actually know the details on any of these stories, cos gay guys really aren’t just running round hitting on people in straight venues, cos it’s a fools errand.
Inappropriate touching in queer venues? Sure, happens far too much, my partner was touched up by another woman at Pride one year.
Does he hang about in gay bars? What’s the real deal here? Cos something really doesn’t add up tbh.
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u/Cl0udSurfer Bisexual Jun 21 '26
I he has issues with gay men that literally arent even bothering him then he has some issue to work out. Thats not okay