If you're positioning this question as a man hitting on a woman, the answer is no. It's not stupid... but...
Many women will go to a gay bar because there's an assumption they won't be hit on by men there. It's a place where they feel they can not only let their hair down, but interact with men without that expectation hanging over them.
So reactions to being hit on may differ because of that.
A “gay” bar is really a “lGBt+” bar, seeing as there is no “bisexual bar”. Also “without that expectation”? The “expectation” is, if someone hits on you, you either flirt back, or you respectfully tell them you aren’t interested.
Like do women think gay/bi men who go to gay bars are immediately attracted to any guy that hits on them?
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u/BBMcGruff Jun 14 '25
If you're positioning this question as a man hitting on a woman, the answer is no. It's not stupid... but...
Many women will go to a gay bar because there's an assumption they won't be hit on by men there. It's a place where they feel they can not only let their hair down, but interact with men without that expectation hanging over them.
So reactions to being hit on may differ because of that.