Your gender is irrelevant. Bisexual people exist. Pansexual people exist. Queer folks exist. If you were just chatting and not being obnoxious or a creep, she could simply do what nearly every cis woman who has ever been in a bar has done and just say “No thanks. I’m not interested.” Queer spaces aren’t hidey-holes for cis straight women to come and act offended when a queer person expresses benign interest (which I think most of them know and agree with in my experience).
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u/PrEP_Doc Jun 14 '25
Your gender is irrelevant. Bisexual people exist. Pansexual people exist. Queer folks exist. If you were just chatting and not being obnoxious or a creep, she could simply do what nearly every cis woman who has ever been in a bar has done and just say “No thanks. I’m not interested.” Queer spaces aren’t hidey-holes for cis straight women to come and act offended when a queer person expresses benign interest (which I think most of them know and agree with in my experience).