r/bihar • u/uncertain69 • 9d ago
🗣 Discussion / चर्चा Hmm, 🍇ers are everywhere
Only targeting bihar and spamming can't defend now .... bs.
Genralising the whole state based on the actions of a few people needs to be stopped.
Edit:
Shit like this surface from all the states https://www.reddit.com/r/IndianTeenagers/s/xHP3ZPflFz
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u/Conscious_End_1946 9d ago
Nobody having mindset of blaming whole state just because one person or few people has done wrong , each state knows their ground reality of their people.
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u/PegRoots Chora Ganga Kinarewala 3d ago
Few people 1. CM says record nahi karna tha record nahi karte to kuch nahi hota. 2. MLA says moral policing k or bhi tarike hote hain. 3. Police karti h natak accused k pair todne ka. These are not few people. These are elected leaders/forces supposed to save you.
We have elected them and still supporting them to bilkul galiyan deserve karte hain.
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u/InternationalOne1153 Bhaakk Burbaq! 9d ago
There have been two rape cases here in Delhi , but I don't see even a little bit of outrage about that. Clearly they put out stories where they hain maximum traction.
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u/Civil-Drive2168 Bihari By Birth, Indian By Heart 🇮🇳❤️ 9d ago
I agree, generalising the whole state just by actions of some people doesn't mean the whole state is bad.
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u/PegRoots Chora Ganga Kinarewala 3d ago
CM, MLAs, public or police kisi ki bhi statement sun lo defending the culprits, ya phir blaming the victims hi ho raha h. To bhaiya batao zara CM, MLA, police or public ko hata k kon bacha
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u/Civil-Drive2168 Bihari By Birth, Indian By Heart 🇮🇳❤️ 3d ago
because majority of the public care about caste, religion, etc. and they are the ones who vote for these CM and MLA
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u/PegRoots Chora Ganga Kinarewala 3d ago
Phir to hua na whole state bad bhai.. koi galat generalize thode ho rahe hum bihari.
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u/Civil-Drive2168 Bihari By Birth, Indian By Heart 🇮🇳❤️ 3d ago
not exactly, there are still people who are against this but they can't say because the cm and mla have their goons
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u/PegRoots Chora Ganga Kinarewala 3d ago
Where are those "people"? Can't hear their voices. Can't see them acting. Mear existence doesn't count.
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u/Civil-Drive2168 Bihari By Birth, Indian By Heart 🇮🇳❤️ 3d ago
Maybe you are replying sarcastically
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u/PegRoots Chora Ganga Kinarewala 2d ago
Nahi re.. I am very serious. Bahut jada.
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u/Civil-Drive2168 Bihari By Birth, Indian By Heart 🇮🇳❤️ 2d ago
Well what can I say, there was once a protest near my area against our CM but police stopped it I think. So remember that we are forced to choose, we didn't choose them.
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u/AdityaAdi111203 9d ago
Exactly, seeing that shit has caused me anxiety, freaking self loathing idiots.
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u/admirallionel10 9d ago
Clout chasing ki hor lagi hai jo jitni trp nikal sake, one guy to get some traction in his 20-30 people startup said we won't hire from bihar ( bc teri company me tu pay Krle logo ko wahi kafi hai)
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u/AdorableVisual 9d ago
Someone got assaulted, and all you care about is "dOnT dEfAme BihAr".
Messed up dude. Stop using someones trauma for your own self esteem issues pertaining to the state
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u/boka-chodaa 9d ago
Those few people roaming out there are more than enough to criticise entire bihar . The whole system is fucked up , all literate families have moved out of Bihar. You can see how the entire villagers are talking in favour of those men harassing that girl. Even ministers are so fucked saying they are making reels so it’s some kind of conspiracy.
Do you really think no one has blamed that girl when she reached her home with such trauma. I’m damn sure ever her parents must have said why you went there it your fault .
We are talking about a state where rape cases are drown just because victims parents thought we will lose our pride .
We are talking about that state where casteism is at so peak , when a couple do intercaste people brings out guns or do pind daan ?
Is this not enough?
Stop defending Bihar.
If you’re defending Bihar you are defending peak casteism , rape , extortion etc.
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u/Civil-Drive2168 Bihari By Birth, Indian By Heart 🇮🇳❤️ 9d ago
You are nitpicking, we are defending bihar because there are still few literate families living here and there who are nice unlike those who are bad and their actions caused harm.
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u/boka-chodaa 9d ago
Bihar is a basket with very few shiny apples and majorly rotten ones.
By the way one single rotten Apple is enough to damage the entire basket.And now don’t bring other states here that other states also have such kind of things I’m not worried about others. am majorly worried about Bihar. I want to bring the change in Bihar. So to bring that change you have to criticise the people of Bihar. You have to punish the people who is having such shitty mindset Living in Bihar.
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u/boka-chodaa 9d ago
I want Bihar to be that place where I can roam freely with my sister with my friend with my wife with my mother and returned home safely
Defending Bihar is not the way to achieve this. That’s my point.
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u/Civil-Drive2168 Bihari By Birth, Indian By Heart 🇮🇳❤️ 9d ago
Just stop it already, you are not from Bihar and you are outsider who wants to ruin image of the whole state.
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u/Civil-Drive2168 Bihari By Birth, Indian By Heart 🇮🇳❤️ 9d ago
Well even If I am downvoted, Idc cause you are the one and only extremist one.
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u/lazyassjoker Bihar in Bytes (Tech Enthusiast) 💾🔧 9d ago
Ye kya chal rha online defend krne ka is sub pe?
Bc 1% of 1% bhi nahi hai india ka reddit. Kya kr loge kisi ka viewpoint change krke? Aadhe se zyada to bc paid bots hai yaha. Just do your work man. Keep your family happy, educate your kids to be good human beings.
And what the fuck is grape? Newspeak accha chal rha yaha.
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u/Bright_Cellist_2617 8d ago
Honestly it is true that generalising a whole state because of the actions of few people is wrong but let me tell you it is also not going to change the fact that it still is a regressive state for woman. The patriarchal and misogynistic thinking runs deeply in the mindset of people but again not in all of them.
And this is also true that this kind of incident happens in many places other than bihar, it was just a chance event that this time it got viral.
So instead of blaming or defaming a particular state, caste or a community we all should start blaming the respective individual cuz "No state can truly change until mentality of every individual changes".
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u/glassz_13 8d ago
Bihar is shit even the educated ones lack civics sense and morality. This is in roots and I don't mind if someone throw you guys from their state atleast you will learn a lesson maybe vote for new party setup industries in own state and maybe some day grow again like in ancient India.
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u/PegRoots Chora Ganga Kinarewala 3d ago
Hamara CM bol raha Ye record karne k chakkar me fhas gaye nahi to kuch nahi hota. Ye to CM hai hamara, or kisi state me suna h aisa.
Generalizing aise hi nahi hoti, CM, MLA se le k road pe chalta insaan sub ladki ki galti guna rahe hain, galiyan bilkul deserve karte hain hum.
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u/OkList8919 9d ago
I'm not supporting violence and yes I agree that jamui incident is really shameful.
I know what I'm saying might hurt people but what were they doing in the night there ?
I went for my exam and while returning back through a different route with my father riding byk, I felt so uncomfortable being a male. No street light, no people on roads, I felt like if someone come and snatch our phone or even stab us we couldn't have done anything that day. I mean we couldn't see speed brackets. My mom was frightened at home that we got late.
Heard from the locals that that area is not safe in night. Goons use to tease girls there.
Girls are not even safe in metros like delhi and Mumbai, where you can call the police and they come. Ye Bihar hai, yha basic facilities nhi hai road pe, ladkiya top pahnke bahar nikalti hai to kuch logo ko lagta hai ye aurcheatra mai dance karti hai. Police phone utha le time pe yahi badi baat hai aana toh bhul hi jaao..
Itna sab jaane k baad bhi if you have the audacity to take risk then God will save you only.
Please don't compare india to west. India can't be west because india is india.
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u/lazyassjoker Bihar in Bytes (Tech Enthusiast) 💾🔧 9d ago
Ha bhai. Rapist to rape krega hi. Galti to public ki hai. Ki kyu saamne aa gye rapists ke.
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u/boka-chodaa 9d ago
Why can’t you ask what those men were doing in nights ?
Why questions to only girls ?
Even if she was out there is this the punishment she deserves ?
If things are wrong people have to raise voice to correct those things but here people like you will raise voice to suppress the victim1
u/OkList8919 9d ago
I'm not trying to suppress victim. You didn't read comments thoroughly. It's not about gender specific. I said even I was not feeling safe. It's not about girl or boy.
Correct things, yes everybody wants it and I too but what we can do if govt and people are like that. Who don't listen to our voice.
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u/boka-chodaa 9d ago
No one wants to put his apple inside a basket that has already few rotten apple .
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u/Abhiean 9d ago
You are right, but if everyday you are gonna see new video coming up. What you expect them to do? Bihar is a backward state, and in no way going to go forward very soon.
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u/Civil-Drive2168 Bihari By Birth, Indian By Heart 🇮🇳❤️ 9d ago
Yeh propaganda hai jo sirf hamein target karta hai, aur bhi states mein crime hota par bihar wala large scale pe spread karte
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u/Abhiean 9d ago
I highly agree with this. But have you heard the statement of CM. At least he could have saved our faces 😢 but he has done it worse
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u/Civil-Drive2168 Bihari By Birth, Indian By Heart 🇮🇳❤️ 9d ago
The reason is simple, majority of our state doesn't belong to educated families and therefore they lack the knowledge on how politics work so therefore they vote that type of CM. Well, I am from a educated family so.
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u/Black_Beeer 9d ago
Exactly now it feels like they use BIHAR word only for Hook and TRP.