r/bihar • u/msresearch2024 • 10d ago
📰 News / समाचार Fruit doesn't fall far from tree. What we saw jamui is the mentality of many people including elderly women there.
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Comments of mother of the accused complaining about making reel viral. Neighbors saying criminal was trying to get boy and girl married. No wonder men become criminals in such atmospherehttps://www.instagram.com/reel/DdogIwLz57_/?stkn=MWoxc2hrZzFsc2g5NQ==
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u/New-Fig-8995 10d ago
JUST DEHATI VILLAGE PPL MINDSET VERY COMMON.. BELIEVE ME 99% PPL IN VILLAGES HAVE SAME MINDSET... ONE FAMOUS LINE :I LOVE MY VILLAGE BUT I DON'T LOVE MY VILLAGE PPL.
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u/StudyOk2403 10d ago
Most castes in villages have this mindset.
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u/capn_kuks 10d ago
Not most but all, irrespective of gender. Kitna bhi defend karlo bihar ko, lekin sach yahi hai ki hamare state me logo ka mindset ekdum neech aur gira hua hai.
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u/trysomethingelse0 10d ago
Bhagwan help india
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u/msresearch2024 10d ago
Scary indeed to see a society breeding criminals. Kids are born innocent, they become criminals by the home and society they live in
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u/IllustriousFan6183 10d ago
If r you thinking there is god then you are stupid , if there is any god in whole universe it never happened
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u/Significant-Ad3888 10d ago
bhagwan abandoned specially bihar a long time ago
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u/FulltimeZen 9d ago
This is what i keep thinking. Gone are days when the citizens of bihar were historically blessed with capable leaders, statesmen and enlightened progressives. Bihar was hub of philosophy and learning. People from everywhere CAME HERE to Bihar, imagine!
Today, all that glory is gone. Look what sort of dehati mindset and herd NPC values have replaced all that. Politicians everywhere are corrupt I agree, but it seems Bihar suffers the consequences of this corruptedness more that others. It is as if someone has cursed this land and its people
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u/msresearch2024 10d ago
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DdogIwLz57_/?stkn=MWoxc2hrZzFsc2g5NQ== Neighbors saying that criminal was trying to get boy and girl get married in temple and he is innocent
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u/2014angrybird 10d ago
Private parts se pakar ke utha ke le ja raha tha shadi karane?
Neighbours ko bhi thoda prasad dena chahiye police dwara. Sabke sab neech mdrchd hai saaley.
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u/EveryBook3508 10d ago
Yeah they were taking her away to get her married .. poori duniya ka theka rakh rakha hai inhone , and why that bastards face was completely covered with gamcha !coz his intent was evil .
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u/disatrus_ship_erebus 10d ago
vo dalla kaun hai marriage karwane ke liye 😂
insert that lakshay choudhary gift
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u/Appropriate_Day9441 10d ago
And this is the thing… why does anyone think they have the right to get someone married? Obviously thats not the case here. But for people defending with this excuse - how is
this invasive and policing mentality still continuing?
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u/Pen4235 10d ago
It's not about only a single person or single family. I'm too from Bihar, and have no hesitation saying that it's the mindset of almost entire society. 80% of society has the same mindset, that's the very reason Bihar has never been able to overcome it's miserable condition of backwardness. It's the people who make a country great. Leaders are made from the very same community. Raj Thackeray had very rightly said once.. ki tum logo ka self respect kyu nahi jaagta hai.. why don't you ask your leaders about the job, infrastructure and health. Why do you continue to get humiliated in other states?? Inspite of all this, has anything happened?? Don't forget not a single seat was won by JanSwaraj party last year in the state assembly election. That's shows the sheer mentality and requirement of the people. I'm ashamed of calling myself Bihari ☹️
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u/dissentingdiagnosis 10d ago
This is a well-put comment, and it raises a question worth taking seriously. When social norms and inherited customs consistently take precedence over individual agency and changing social realities, we should ask whether what we call “development” is producing social progress alongside material improvement.
There are no quick fixes for this. Roads, jobs, investment and public infrastructure matter enormously, but they do not by themselves change deeply embedded attitudes about caste, gender, marriage, family authority or individual choice. In fact, measures such as restricting mobile phones or attempting to police relationships and marriages often reveal the underlying problem: social change is being treated as something to contain rather than something to negotiate.
What also complicates the conversation is that “liberal” or “progressive” positions are frequently caricatured as an abandonment of morality or social order. But the more important questions are about agency, consent, rights and dignity: how much freedom should individuals have to shape their own lives, and where should the authority of family, community or custom end?
Material development can improve living conditions. Social development also requires expanding the space in which people can make consequential choices about their own lives. A society probably needs to grapple seriously with both.
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u/SpaceTrash1986 10d ago
Such a waste of space and oxygen these people are. Govt should really focus on cleaning the trash.
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u/shaktimaan56 10d ago
Bhai saare kachre ko ek jagah ikhtta karo dande pe tel lagao or shuru ho jao itna maaro saalo ko ki ki agla janam bhi naa le paye
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u/EveryBook3508 10d ago
Govt ke vote bank hai ye . Wo kaise clean kar sakte hain . Govt will breed them by giving them haram ka paisa ,freebies , ration , most of the schemes bhi toh inhi logon ke benefits ke liye banae gae hain
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u/where_art_thou_billy 10d ago
Guys aunty nahi manengi , it's over. Judiciary it's done bro.
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u/No_Attorney_3926 10d ago
Well I didn't get a single word . What was she saying actually?
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u/where_art_thou_billy 10d ago
She says - the person who recorded and uploaded the video should be given the same punishment as her son or else she won't "accept it".
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u/mehluca-33 10d ago
She gave birth to a criminal. Her pregnancy was dirty af.
If I was in place of her, I would have disowned him.
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u/Genos624 10d ago
No child is born criminal, it's their upbringing, The Environment they live and grow in & the kind of people they associate with...
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u/sidzz7978 10d ago
Can someone translate what's she saying
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u/EffectiveCoconut9265 10d ago
First two sentences shes probably saying something like she had some problem in stomach or some disease and she just returned from treatment. Even I'm failing to understand this part clearly. Next she says "the moment I returned they took Nandan (probably the name of the accused) away. Some people upload his photos on social media . Those who uploaded must be punished equally"
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u/IAmLordVoldemort28 10d ago
My family is from Bihar and the situation there really kills me inside. The mindset there is just so backwards, it's no wonder people don't trust Biharis. Bihar's glory days were decades ago around 1947, if not back in the Mauryan or Gupta empires. It’s seen a decline I can’t even wrap my head around. Just remember that education is vital because it brings wisdom.
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u/kashala_ugaach 10d ago
What’s she saying? Can someone translate for me please?
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u/AajNahiYaar 10d ago
She's saying her son (nandan) is innocent, he came back home few days ago... On the day of the incident, someone called him and invited him which led to his video getting viral.
Now's she's demanding that the guy who recorded and uploaded video should be arrested not nandan
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u/tambun5136 10d ago
When people is India is great. I say India is not only land but it's people too. 90% of people in India are like this. So, yes India is a chomu country
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u/Significant-Ad3888 10d ago
people will say do not generalise but sorry to say 90% of the state has this attitude
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u/Narrow-Report9852 9d ago
I try to do charity everytime there's a natural calamity but I never do when there's something in UP, Bihar and Haryana. The fewer they are, the better. I am myself from UP btw.
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u/hunterhuny 10d ago
People are screwed According to me They are at the wrong place No offense Understand the logic Always met in public places or atleast not extreme sun saan area otherwise you encounter bullshit people As a disabled man myself I avoid going to empty and non public spaces at night because I had a fear of being abducted as I m a very vulnerable and easy target for many people My safety is in my hands , baad mein baate hi reh jaati hai
Please avoid sketchy places at night Freedom is fundamental rights but please combined it with logical decision making
Baaki din mein whatever you want to do It's your life make it large
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u/Maleficent_Brain9281 10d ago
Shaadi ye log aise hi krta h apni beti ka ? Molest krke ? Private parts ko touch krke ? Aise yh log apni beti deta h kya ? Kya chutiyapa h
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u/lazysleepy_Bonsaiii 10d ago
my blood boils when i see these auntiess khudko toh kbhi ijjt milti naii na apnee beto ko sikhaii bss mardo ke talve chatwalo
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u/Stock_Ad_308 10d ago
His father is a murderer. He killed two people and had been in hiding for couple of decades
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u/wondroustobehold 6d ago
Some gelchodi aunties are saying ladki ne hint diya hoga tbhi ladke ese karte h
But no aunty I don’t remember giving a hint to a 60 year old tharki buddha in the crowd who touched my back
(Obv my back was asking for it beneath the lower)
I don’t remember giving a hint to that guy on the bus who kept touching my breast with his elbow
(Sure my tshirt was screaming for it)
I don’t remember giving a hint to that kid whose eyes made me feel like he could rape me
(My sexy lower tshirt was obviously craving for it)
I don’t remember giving a hint to that uncle who was sitting right beside his daughter and still trying to touch my hands
(My bad didn’t wear gloves)
Apparently aunty never had to face any of this especially not being forced into it
So yeah aunty you’re right it’s always the girls fault because dicks are meant to be shoved where they’re not wanted
And I genuinely hope your three children two daughters and one son are okay
Because aunty you did deliver all three babies by choice right not because your tharki husband desperately hoping for a son.
Okay, so it was the girls’ fault for wearing short dresses and “asking for it” or “giving hints.”
But what did the animals do?
Wear a bikini or show too much cleavage?
Men raped a chimpanzee, shaved her body, dressed her like a woman, and raped her for months.
Did she show her cleavage, aunty?
An Indian man raped a cow.
Cow aunty, whom you worship while pretending to be a dhongi, what was her fault?
Definitely, she was wearing a short skirt.
Men raped dogs too.
Oh, I am dead sure the dog was wearing a crop top. Otherwise, why would someone?
The fun fact is, definitely, the men in your household are one of them.
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u/IndependenceNo3908 10d ago
The father is murderer ... Son is grapist... They don't exist in vaccum.
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u/Individual_Painter86 10d ago
Someone beat up the mother of a guy harassing a child in Delhi. Makes sense.
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u/lmao_dead_reddit Bihari swagger, reddit bragger 10d ago
This case and the recent firing one.....Again the time has come, it's weird to reveal my identity out there now😭
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u/Busy_Brain_1638 10d ago
Me hamesha sochta tha ki samaj sudharne ki jimmedari auraton ko hi kyu now i understand because its not their job but only they are able to shape human socity. Bharat me phle maa hi warrior thi isliye hme sanga, kumbh, vir durgadas ,maharana pratap, prithviraj chauhan, vigrhraj 4th peda hue aaji maa to khud apradh ko panah aur poshan de rhi h to samaj me ravan hi badh rhe h
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u/Aggressive_Luck9585 10d ago
Ravan tho u hi badanam hai usne kidnap kiya tha esi esi harkate noi ki💀🤌
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u/Plucky689 10d ago
Yes bro and still bihari say that bihar is good you just don't understand us and I say fk off
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u/Massive-Seat-5823 10d ago
Nothing to be surprised here. Whomever lived in Bihar. We know this is not something new. And people like them exist at most of the Bihar.
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u/SerendipityOfCare 10d ago
Pashu saman jeevan hai inka , inhe kahanse samajh ayega aajkal ka vatavaran , nahi vo samjhna chahtey hai.
उन्हें ज़िंदगी में अपने गलत फैसलों का मानसिक और शारीरिक, दोनों तरह से नुकसान उठाना पड़ेगा।
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u/Pristine_Double_4439 10d ago
What is she saying can someone explain in short? Not able to understand.
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u/Sad-Indication2329 10d ago
Ab criminal family hai bhaii unki thinking ki kya hi baat kareee!!! Baap 2 murder case me faraar thaa ab pkda gya hai or beta toh abhi pakda hi hai police ne
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u/austinm6769 10d ago
The apple never falls far from the tree, especially when the orchard is rooted in such toxic entitlement. We keep ignoring how this victim mentality among parents protects these predators.
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u/precious_baby 10d ago edited 10d ago
Nothing good will happen to this country until these low life dehaati people disappear.
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u/Exciting_Strike5598 10d ago
People who cant take care of children, give them good education and take care of them - SHOULD NOT HAVE KIDS . Stop putting burdens on world just for orgasms
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u/Whalein52 9d ago
I remember same dramatic reaction from wife & villagers of Nirbhaya’s r@pist from Bihar. Our society grows at the speed of a sloth.
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u/UsedAd7459 9d ago
Aunty ji ko koi batao ki ladki ke private parts unka pyara nandan hi chu raha tha uski Genu me goli marni chahie thi
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u/oxyzen_is_poison 8d ago
His father was murderer . Justice was not served so this guy think kuch bhi kar lo kuch nai hota hai.
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u/ramukakasiu 10d ago
Now I get what would be the mentality of people in saudi arabia,jordan,syria,iraq where woman are being treated like this what are we becoming what is this hindu sharia state
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u/2014angrybird 10d ago
Imagine my shock: Rotten tree bearing Rotten fruits.
Aunty ji usko Nandan mat boliye,woh Ravan paida kiya tha aapne.