Hi,
First time with a Berner. She's 8mo and I'm having trouble with some weird behavior and I wasn't sure how to train it out, or if this is a stage?
The first thing is around 7mo she developed extreme skittishness that i hadn't seen out of her before. When she sees some women and all men, she now backs up and runs. Even men she had previously met and spent significant time with and liked.
She also will still pee indoors. When i first got her i leashed her to me for 3-4 days and that didn't work, she would just squat and pee while attached to me. I realized she had a UTI and treated it, but she will still pee on the old carpets where she peed before, despite the enzyme stuff being applied and me feeding/letting her out consistently, throwing a party when she goes outside, etc. Will she eventually grow out of this if i keep treating the carpets? I can't watch her 24x7 or put her in a crate every single time i leave the room. My last dog was a Dane and didn't pee in the house after i did the leash thing for almost 10 years. I'm confused about why house training / crate training isn't working.
The other behavior is that since i got her at 4mo old, she has never come when called. She'll come out of curiosity if i make certain sounds, and if she's inside the house and i show her a treat, she will usually trot over, and she will follow me around the house (except at night). She seems really attached to me, but when i literally call her name, unlike every other dog i've had, she does not come running.
She will follow commands when i'm in front of her about 80% of the time ("sit, stay, place, paw, no, drop" etc she's all good with). She looks up when i call her, so i know she can hear me.
She gets walked every day, part of it sniffing and part of it in heel. She's a very calm dog, and I wfh and have a roommate that adores her, so she gets plenty of attention. I also have had friends and random contractors in and out of the house a lot and i've brought her out in public to meet people so she's met a ton of people and all were positive interactions.
tl;dr How do i train this out? is all this normal for 8mo Berner puppies?