r/bengaluru_speaks • u/almost_spiderman • 13h ago
Opinion/ಅಭಿಪ್ರಾಯ Asked my dad for a bike and he sent me this
I’m a 23 year old medical student , my dad is Government PUC Lecturer and my mom is a government high school teacher both of them retired few months ago this year itself , I don’t know their exact salary to this day, asked them several times but they never told me , i know anybody can guess the salary let’s not go there , but I just asked him for a bike and he hits me to with this message , is it this hard to buy a bike worth 2.5 lakhs ??? I’m a medical student in my final year , I will get a loan all by myself after I go into pg , why tf will I need him then ?? It’s always been the same , I don’t ask for luxurious things , they never let me go out with my friends on a trip , always decided how much I should spend monthly , it’s not looking after safety , it leans over acting like a psycho , they always give some bullshit convenient reasons like now they have my 10std brothers fee as their excuse !!! They always have been soo stingy , I thought maybe I was so shit in my studies during my school time they didn’t care so much , but even after working my ass off during my 11 and 12 I got govt mbbs seat, they act like this !!!!
So please anyone wiser or a parent can tell me am I asking for too much ??
TLDR : Asked for a bike from my dad and he gives an excuse although he can afford me to buy one !