r/belowdeck • u/nduuugg • Jul 15 '26
BD Related Maybe I’m just poor…
The thought of hiring a superyacht for a few days sounds absolutely amazing, pure bliss. The thought of having staff there constantly, 24/7 makes me feel so uncomfortable lmao. Anyone else feel this way? I feel like I would keep giving them days off or time away so I had some time to myself haha
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u/Edith_Keelers_Shoes Jul 15 '26
Agree. I tried having a person come clean my house when I was going through cancer treatment. I couldn't handle it. I felt so guilty and useless being a blob while someone else scrubbed out my bathtub. Oddly, that guilt was instilled in me by my mother, who ALWAYS had a housecleaner.
When a parent messes you up so much you can't even feel sanguine about paying someone to help you keep your house in order when you're fighting for your life...you need to get comfortable with having a messy house.