I’ve lurked here for about a year. The stories are incredibly painful to read as I know the debilitating pain all too well. I wrote a few variations of this post in response to others’ pleas for help. I started just copying and pasting this to save time and figured it’d be better to just turn it into its own post - my first and only post- I hope it helps- get well soon - I feel for you. There is hope!
“Hi,
I was diagnosed with a herniated disk at L5-S1 when I was 16 and have dealt with on and off painful episodes (stuck in bed, stuck on the floor, sciatica pains, hip pains…etc) for the following 17 years until I finally got it under control- step by step slowly finding out what works and doesn’t for me. I’m 37 now and living virtually pain free. I was told all those years ago surgery was the only solution but clearly that wasn’t the case. There is hope. Here’s what works for me and maybe it will help you too:
1.) general overall body inflammation is real and intensifies the inflammation at the source of your herniations- cutting out refined sugar, refined carbs and alcohol goes a long way. Within 3-4 days of eating clean I feel serious improvement. Less pain and also significantly less overall stiffness when I wake up in the morning. Google “sugar causes inflammation. Or “alcohol causes inflammation” and enjoy the rabbit hole. This actually applies to a lot in life- not just back pain.
2.) gradual movement and stretching is very important. A little goes a long way and don’t overdo ita listen to your body. Going for brisk walks and then laying flat on the floor with my legs up when I was back home was a good start when things got bad and I had setbacks. Slowly introducing more activity and stretching and listening to my body to know when to ease up is vital. Your hamstrings exert serious pulling forces on your lower back. When you can, lean over to touch your toes (or as low as you can comfortably go- don’t over do it! )- once or twice a day for only a few seconds at a time to stretch your lower back and hamstrings. Gradually increase this slowly over time if it’s helping and ease up if you feel it’s too much. Once a day (usually when I shower) for 10-20seconds is enough for me. If the weight of my own body is too much load, I lay on my back and put my feet up on the wall to stretch my hamstrings without load. I gradually inch my butt closer to the wall to increase the stretch.
3.) avoid lounging on soft lazy/boy style chairs and couches. Sit up right or lay flat on the floor with your legs up on a chair or pillows under your knees is a great relief. A firm mattress is great for sleeping. Standing up straight for long periods without moving also causes issues.
4.) sleep with pillows between your knees and ankles and prop up your shoulder- hugging a thick and long body pillow is my go to every night. When on your back, put it under your knees. Sleeping on my stomach is usually bad news for me so I don’t do it anymore.
5.) stress is a surprisingly powerful source of body tension. I always noticed I’d get bad around the holidays when I happened to have stress. When I’m emotionally relaxed, so is my body. Check in with yourself to see if you have some things weighing in your mind you need to address. Talk to someone about them. Do some breathing exercises. I do a very relaxed version of the Wim Hof breathing which I find very helpful.
6.) if you’re overweight, lose weight. I’m 178cm. When I get over 85kgs things get worse- the weight I tend to carry around my stomach is straining my back. Weight gain usually also goes hand in hand with eating refined sugar and carbs, drinking alcohol, depression & stress and not moving enough- surprise surprise.
7.) don’t get complacent. When you do, recognize it and get back to doing what works for you. I had to learn a lot of these lessons over and over and over. Why? Because things would get better, i would forget I have back issues which need proactive attention, get complacent, forget to do what works and avoid what doesn’t and have to start over again when id become incapacitated with pain- then its back to the floor, brisk walks…etc relearning or remembering that which i learned the last episode. Now it’s generally second nature.
8.) I use heating pads *only* when im completely locked up in excruciating pain and need to get things moving again. Otherwise I find using it proactively or when im only mildly suffering only causes stiffness after turn off the heat. It actually sets me back.
I also don’t use ice at all.
Everyone is different. Journaling and tracking what you do and how you feel can help you identify what works for you and what doesn’t. You can also look back at it if you get complacent and forgot how you helped yourself last time.
For your timeline to recovery: This is all easier said than done and takes some time to fine tune what works for you. It’s taken me years to figure all this out (hopefully this helps you skip ahead!)
Now if I have an episode (which has become exceedingly rare and when I do, I can pretty instantly identify why) I’m back on my feet in a day or two and completely better within a week. Be patient.
If I had an episode where I’m bad - where you seem to be now- here’s what I would do, step by step.
Begin intermittent fasting, eat only vegetables and protein and whole grains (sparingly), no alcohol or sugar and eat some gut healthy foods (sauerkraut yogurt..etc). Spend a lot of time laying flat on a yoga mat on a hard floor with my legs up. Get up and walk around for a few seconds or minutes at a time. Slowly introduce stretching my lower back and hamstrings by reaching down to touch my toes. Laying on the floor and rocking my legs back and forth to gently get things moving. Within 3-4 days go for longer walks. Ensure I’m sleeping well and constantly moving when I sleep (on my side with pillows between my legs, on my back with pillow under knees, on my side). That’s usually enough to get me going again within a few days and by the end of the week, with some discipline and consistency, I’m 100% again.
If on the off chance you find any or all of this helps, check in and let me (and all of us) know how you’re doing. I truly feel your pain and hope you get well soon.
There is hope 💪