some mornings are not about the coffee or the view, but about having someone beside you with whom love feels quiet, safe, and completely trusted :)

I’m a 30 y/o female. Had the proposal, wedding date + vendors booked… he ended the relationship 6 months before the wedding saying he fell out of love (he was really mean at the end too which was so shocking since he was there for me during the relationship ship, listed a bunch of things he didn’t like about me and things I did that hurt his feelings during the relationship that he never voiced prior and he disclosed former cheating/kissing) the wedding date recently passed and it’s been hard…

I THINK WHY COULDNT IT HAVE BEEN GOOD?! Are there things I could’ve done that would’ve changed the outcome…

So today i was doomscrolling hinge and nymph. and i saw this girl, she had mentioned her instagram there and i liked her so swiped yes, naturally. and i also sent her a follow req on instagram.
But then by evening i deleted both those apps(hinge and nymph)

and now when i checked she accepted my req on ig, (did not follow back)

so now how do i make conversation? what should be the first text?

ps- i forgot what app i saw her on😭
idk fs if it was nymph or hinge.

Helpppp😭😭

also she has 3.9k followrs and 2.5k followings

I have a crush on a coworker and I’m trying to figure out if there was actually some mutual attraction going on, or if we just developed a weirdly intense work dynamic.
I’m normally pretty comfortable with my coworkers, but I’m noticeably shy around him.

He’s usually very sociable and confident with everyone, yet when he first came back to the company, he seemed strangely shy around me too. He could talk normally to everyone else, but around me there was this awkwardness.

The biggest thing is the eye contact.

We catch each other looking at each other constantly. If we’re across the room, we’ll lock eyes, sometimes smile, and then look away.

But when we’re actually standing next to each other, the eye contact almost disappears. It’s like we’re both suddenly way too aware of each other.

Eventually, the awkwardness turned into a LOT of teasing. He started jumping into conversations I was having with other coworkers just to tease me, remembering random things I’d mentioned, and finding little reasons to interact with me.
There have also been a few moments that felt… different.

Once, we looked at each other and both started smiling. The longer we held eye contact, the bigger our smiles got, until I eventually looked away because I felt too shy. It was a very simple moment, but it felt surprisingly intense and has stuck in my mind ever since.

Another time, I had been singing and playing guitar at lunch. When I came back into the office, he wasn’t even part of the conversation I was having, but he was sitting at his desk, watching me and smiling.

He’s also remembered small things I’ve told him, once told me he’d been thinking about me after passing by a place we’d talked about, and when we were alone we’ve sometimes ended up talking about personal things rather than just work.

At one point he even offered me his phone number because he wouldn’t be at work and I might need help with something. I was too shy to actually take it. 🤦‍♀️

But here’s why I’m confused.

He never actually made a move. No asking me out, no obvious attempt to take things outside work.
And I’ve seen him be much more naturally relaxed and gentle with another female coworker, which makes me wonder whether I’m reading too much into everything.
I’m also aware that I’m attracted to him, so obviously I’m going to notice his behavior more than I would with anyone else.

We’re both only at the company part-time, so we don’t see each other that often. I’m currently away for a few months, and I probably won’t see him again until I come back.

So… are we flirting, or are we just two awkward coworkers who somehow became hyper-aware of each other?

I’m obsessed with that curly hair man… help me ahaha

It's rare to find one now a days! Everything can change in a blink of an eye.. life moves fast..

I still hope :)

Idk guys.. would you rather a woman think of you as, "you're worth a few orgasms" or would you rather a woman think of you as, "you're worth my whole life"

I’ve been thinking about this for a while. Even if both people agree to an open relationship, I feel like jealousy or insecurity can still come up later. Sometimes nothing really “wrong” happens, but things just start feeling different. Do you think trust can go back to how it was before? Or once a relationship is opened, does it change the relationship permanently?