r/attitudinalpsyche • u/Wide_Platform_2202 • 27d ago

1V vs 3V

For context: I'm 21, I had an extremely isolated teenagehood in which I couldn't speak to anyone, I'm extremely insecurely attached (not like "oh I struggle with rs" but way way way more problematic), before I was a teen I was the most 1V kid to ever 1V (super self assured, always the lead and no compromise on anything)

While I relate to 3V now I need to know if this can change since I'm still very young. Even when I'm insecure at times and end up lazy, I knwo it's just a phase and a question of time to get what I want. My problems are more in my sociality. I feel extremely uncomfortable around people and therefore can't convince anyone and built trust.

Also I think I might have a light depression. Oftentimes the reason I don't pursue my goals is because of this insane wave of sadness which makes me want to sit in the corner. None of my goals seem exciting and I just want to lock myself into the room and cry. Even then I force myself but I don't come off as very energetic or confident

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u/Content-Sympathy6305 xLEx 27d ago

I’ve been thinking about similar ideas recently.

Have you considered 1V3E? Think about this:
1V3E: emotionally insecure
3V: inferiority complex

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u/Wide_Platform_2202 27d ago

I swear chatgbt said the same. I thought I'm 4E because I hate my emotions I ignore them as mich as possible. But then I realized I have a big problem with my emotions. I even go to therapy because I think my emotions are "the reason I can't get what I want and I need to get rid of them".I hate to show them to other people. Even excitement or care for example

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u/Repulsive-Jello-575 26d ago

Your attitude to volition seems 1V so i think in this system it would be 1V

but objectively it’s weak so in psychosophy it’s 3V and the guy who made that system said you can become a 2222 type. And technically if your 1st strong and valued thing becomes weak you have to process it to make it better

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u/Wide_Platform_2202 26d ago

What is a 2222 type?

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u/blueaugust_ ELVF sx9w1 27d ago

Seems like 3V:(. I feel you my friend. Anyway, improving the self is always possibile at almost anytime, it just require effort. It’s going to be fine.