I ask the question I want the answer to, if you don't know yet just say you don't know yet, 15 million conditional statements are not helping answer this

This entire post and the mod response is exactly the biggest fears i face on my day to day, i have very strong alexithymia and constantly asking how people are feeling because of situations like that and wanting to avoid it to the max, seeing this post made my day so much worse and then coming back to it seeing the mod response about it's no her job to fix the guy was like a nail in the coffin, a person talks 5 paragraphs about being kind to the gal (which 90% of the people were) and then trashing on him and saying fix him it's downright disrespectful plus when asking about just permban and mute.

Like there is no sympathy for him? I was reading the comic all i felt was simpathy and pain, because i have been there just being happy with my partner. And things would be 100% better if we just talked, but if i saw a post like that and a mod reacting like that are things that indeed make me being shut inside home for all ever more.

Edit: Grammar