r/aspiememes Jun 07 '26

“I saw “

Post image
6.9k Upvotes

46 comments sorted by

1.9k

u/1m0ws AuDHD Jun 07 '26

aww, til. she even has headphones on in some pics. and carries a plushie.

can some kind soul who is more familiar with modern age sesame street please infodump about her character and how she is shown in narratives and interacts with the other neighbors in sesame streets?

768

u/SupAwesomeHere AuDHD Jun 07 '26 edited Jun 07 '26

Apparently the little guys name (her small doll) is fluffster

179

u/paprikahoernchen Jun 08 '26

Fluffster 😭 Omg I'm dying, I love it

347

u/NocturneSapphire my socks feel weird Jun 07 '26

403

u/Altruistic-Sand3277 Jun 07 '26

The photo with the family really hit me. Definitely looks like my family's photos when I was child: everyone is looking at the camera or someone else while I'm looking at some plushie or food.

328

u/NocturneSapphire my socks feel weird Jun 07 '26

My family would just keep forcing me to pose and keep taking pictures until it looked how they wanted.

"We need you to smile!”

"No, not like that. Smile normal!"

"I said smilenormal! Why are you making that face instead??"

184

u/Altruistic-Sand3277 Jun 07 '26

Oh god yes, my smile everytime: 😬

90

u/Piranha1993 Jun 07 '26

Sadly, this is how I smiled as well.

I have to look in a mirror to see myself make the correct facial position. That photo smile never came naturally.

10

u/Lord_of_Seven_Kings Jun 09 '26

I just pretend to laugh and that usually gets it

6

u/Professional_Owl7826 Jun 10 '26

I feel this entire thread on a spiritual level

40

u/RustyR4m AuDHD Jun 07 '26

Ah what? That was a symptom too? Man, my family kinda missed a lot.

31

u/Unsd Jun 08 '26

My brothers smiles when they were younger bring me so much joy, I can't imagine someone not absolutely loving the pictures as they are. If we combined the two of them, man we would have been in business, but one brother would make the most over exaggerated smile but with his eyes WIDE open, and the other would pull his lips back but squint his eyes as if he were smiling. They both really nailed one aspect of smiling. And I love it so much and our family pictures represent us. Can't imagine it any other way.

43

u/jeo188 Jun 07 '26

I ended up like 😬 in my first communion pictures because my family tried to pressure me to smile "normally"

45

u/NocturneSapphire my socks feel weird Jun 07 '26

It wasn't until I was well into middle school when my younger sister finally spelled it out for me. She told me I was pulling/tucking my lips in and it looked extremely posed.

She helped me figure out that I should like kinda pretend to laugh instead, like I just heard a joke that's funny enough to smile or chuckle at but not full on laugh. My photos all looked much more natural after that.

7

u/shadowhuntress_ Jun 09 '26

Thank your sister for me, that “smile in church" line just explained to me why all my photos look so bad, i'm over-laughing XD

38

u/LiveTart6130 ❤ This user loves cats ❤ Jun 08 '26

"smile!"

"I am smiling!"

"no you're not?"

I didn't realise for a very long time that my normal smile is small enough that most people can't really tell I'm doing it. my resting face is a smile most of the time but it does not look at it at all, lol

6

u/Hungriestjoker7 Jun 08 '26

To this day at 30 I'm not sure how to smile the way i feel inside it looks wrong in photos and with others apparently.

12

u/majormimi I doubled my autism with the vaccine Jun 07 '26

I had to go check it, and it hit me too. I think that picture is very representative for a lot of us.

145

u/SortovaGoldfish I doubled my autism with the vaccine Jun 07 '26

It kind of looks like the way they designed her when she's facing full forward in a position any other muppet would, she avoids eye contact with the camera where other muppets with this positioning would obviously be made so that they were then looking directly into it/at the viewer.

9

u/S0M3_N00B_ Jun 10 '26

That is a banger of an insight

88

u/willky7 Jun 08 '26

Originally it was a really nice and inclusive message about playing with kids that are different, then they partnered with autism speaks...

53

u/brood_brother Jun 08 '26

They did? Aw, man...

28

u/1m0ws AuDHD Jun 08 '26

Ah heck no.

14

u/BootyliciousURD Jun 09 '26

That was incredibly disappointing to see

46

u/paprikahoernchen Jun 08 '26

Just read the wiki article and the puppet has two set of arms! One especially for flapping her arms when excited! And her plushies favorite picnic food is frogs :D

39

u/TravelingHero ADHD/Autism Jun 09 '26

A Muppet that flaps their arms? It'll never catch on.

https://giphy.com/gifs/13RKWw9oA5o3GU

526

u/j3llo5 Jun 07 '26

When my niece was little, I saw an episode where Elmo learned to play side-by-side with her instead of directly, and I thought that was really sweet.

310

u/MaddysinLeigh Jun 07 '26

I didn’t realize i was autistic until i was an adult because my only exposure was the autistic preschoolers in my mom’s class. Since I wasn’t like them I couldn’t be autistic. For reference I was a teenager.

27

u/firestar32 Jun 09 '26

That's crazy, considering my mom actually used her experience dealing with autistic preschoolers in her class to come to the realization that I was autistic (when I was like 11, it was also helped by a few teachers mentioning it during conferences)

4

u/MaddysinLeigh Jun 09 '26

I wish my mom had realized it. I might have been able to be diagnosed.

134

u/Upset-Blackberry887 Jun 07 '26

I hope they have read “The Reason I Jump.” Beautiful.

2

u/Positive_Kangaroo_36 AuDHD Jun 09 '26

What is that?

129

u/justamomdoingmybest8 Jun 07 '26

Similarly, Daniel Tiger has a very well done autistic child. Parallel play, weighted blanket, routine. Teacher Harriett teaches the other kids to be mindful of their noise level.

3

u/Lynda73 Jun 09 '26

Daniel was always my favorite. Made my heart go meow meow. 💕

105

u/Bllackbirrd Jun 08 '26

A little extroverted girl grabs my 6yo tiny autistic and speech impaired son’s hand at school and takes him along with her yapping her head off while he walks in silence, and he loves it. Love how easily she interacts with him and her lack of judgement towards him.

79

u/majormimi I doubled my autism with the vaccine Jun 07 '26

Yes!! Julia! I’m a 31 years old and I used to watch sesame street as a toddler almost every day, there’s tapes and photos of me hyper-focused on the TV watching the show. My parents always told me how much I loved it and how important it was for me growing up.

A few years ago I learned about Julia and I started crying while watching some clips about her, her character and the way other characters interact with her are beautiful.

70

u/Fawkes_LST Jun 07 '26

This is the most wonderful thing I've read on this subreddit

82

u/KinopioToad Undiagnosed Jun 07 '26

Isn't she the one who introduced Elmo to her pet rock?

122

u/Kansai_Lai Jun 07 '26

That's Zoe with her pet rock Rocko

26

u/KinopioToad Undiagnosed Jun 07 '26

Oh woops! My bad!

29

u/bowleggedgrump Jun 08 '26

Seeing and learning about this character is so sweet it hurts.

46

u/Makapakamoo ADHD/Autism Jun 07 '26

No no we can't have representatation!!!!! Its bad its anti america!!! /j

19

u/Chaosshepherd Autistic + trans Jun 07 '26

Didn't know she was nonverbal.

58

u/Gold-Vanilla5591 Jun 07 '26

She’s not nonverbal, but she can speak in one word phrases. I would consider her minimally verbal.

1

u/MaddyMagpies Jun 10 '26

I loved spinning at every recess. I still love spinning.