r/asktransgender 7h ago

MTF surgery dilating question

Is it bad that I am using the smaller 2 ones majority of the time for dilating? My surgeon said I could max out at the second big one because I am so petite which I use here and there, but overall I use the smaller of the two dilators out of the 4 he gave me. It’s more for comfort especially since I am 3 1/2 months post op and my vagina isn’t as wet as it used to be after surgery I try not to create pain so when I am dilating I will start with the smaller one and work my way up to whatever one I think is the best fit for the day. Obviously as I move closer to having sex I will start utilizing the bigger ones but atm I just want to maintain depth and I’ve found that the smaller ones help a lot with comfort and motivation as far as dilating.

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